Quote Originally Posted by Arthur Little View Post
Very well said, Penny! Much better if the aggrieved party types a Private Message to the person offending him/her to convey how hurt he/she felt about the nature/content of the other's post ... rather than vent his/her anger and frustration in "public". Overall, this would surely be a far more rational, mature and indeed, effective means of defusing the situation - without [unnecessarily] adding 'fuel to the fire'.
Thanks lots and lots indeed Arthur.

Adding fuel is also bad. I don't really like those people who adds fuel and at the end of the day, they cannot help the member/s who gets banned after their fuel added.