Quote Originally Posted by pacificelectric View Post
She actually never asked for money, although she has made it clear from the start that as a widow with three children she needed to budget things but she never asked for anything.... and she showed me the invoice of the dermatologist on webcam!
well a good point is her children are not children any more, the youngest is nearly 18, maybe she can get a job in France and use part of her wage to support her kids (that's what my misses does).

you just need to get her to talk about it, easier said than done thou

are you French or a Brit living in France ?