Am I being fooled???

[trader dave]

Pacific,your going to get ladies later telling you give her the benefit of the doubt.....Understand her.....etc.....etc....etc,you know why?Because they empathise more,Trader Dave is giving you wise counsel,no offence intended to Dave but I know he has been about a bit,he knows the score,no woman would be desperate to marry you without meeting unless...........Go into the kitchen,get your egg timer and turn it over,see the sands of time running out?Always be a bit wary,its like the sands at Morcambe Bay,it all looks the same to the inexperienced eye,but some will suck you under,some will be firm and support you,step back and examine the situation from a different angle

thanks tawi you just put it a little more diplomaticly than me you have such a way with words

[Tawi2]

thanks tawi you just put it a little more diplomaticly than me you have such a way with words

Dave,we used to call it pussy-whipped,a guy would get involved with the first woman who flashed him a smile,its a waste of time saying avoid her because remember when your mum said "Dave dont do that" whats the first thing you did when she turned her back? Its always best to learn by experience,she is a cruel teacher but you never forget her lessons

[britishdetained]

Dave,we used to call it pussy-whipped,a guy would get involved with the first woman who flashed him a smile,its a waste of time saying avoid her because remember when your mum said "Dave dont do that" whats the first thing you did when she turned her back? Its always best to learn by experience,she is a cruel teacher but you never forget her lessons

i never learned my lesson then

[Tawi2]

9 times out of 10 I got my fingers burnt Pacific,dont take any of this as a personal critique,its just borne out by experiences down the line,we all have to jump into the pool and test the depth for ourselves,I was at the pearl Farm on Samal earlier this year,enjoy your holiday

[trader dave]

my wife now wants me to be so much in control of here life i find it unearving but if you understand her life before you would understand why she has never had the loving caring family upbringing she no relations no one has ever showed her any attention no one has ever cared


so now i am everything to her father figure ,husband ,lover the whole lot

which brings its own concerns but as far as material things go SHE ASKS FOR NOTHING and she never pushed to get married it was me who pushed because i could see a gem but i am a realist