married to the family, i think i'm married to the whole block
sounds to me she's embarrassed about asking you to help her kids out til they have left unias you have not offered to help, or have you ??
so what do you want to happen to her kids (thou not really kids being 23, 19 and nearly 18) ?
maybe she wants them with her or you to help support the 2 younger ones ?
thou uni costs are not much compared to here.
Last week I sent her 60.000 pesos to have age spots removed from her cheek with diamond laser peel by a dermatologist, so perhaps she thinks I print banknotes in the cellar......Originally Posted by joebloggs
married to the family, i think i'm married to the whole block
sounds to me she's embarrassed about asking you to help her kids out til they have left uni
I bet this is more less what she has in mind but she also is not sure how deep I have swallowed the bait so far. She is very smart and even if she claims she loves me with passion I am sure she has something in mind for her children.
Last week I sent her 60.000 pesos to have age spots removed from her cheek with diamond laser peel by a dermatologist, so perhaps she thinks I print banknotes in the cellar......
I bet this is more less what she has in mind but she also is not sure how deep I have swallowed the bait so far. She is very smart and even if she claims she loves me with passion I am sure she has something in mind for her children., just be thankful her kids didn't ask for it to
did she ask you to pay for the treatment or did you offer ?
i could write a book for the things i've paid for, from A to Z
Its a bit like a leaking tap,replace the washer and fix it when you first notice the drip,or the flow just gets faster and faster till its unstoppable
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Actually I noticed she had these spots on a close up photo and in doubt I forwarded the photo to a friend of mine who is a dermatologist and her advice was that she should see a specialist and I offered the treatment in full knowledge and I am glad I did as the spots could have spread. I really cannot say she is taking advantage of me and lately I discovered she pawned things to pay invoices and she would not tell me as she felt shameful but with the issue of her children's future I feel like I have hit a very sensitive spot......
did she ask you to pay for the treatment or did you offer ?
i could write a book for the things i've paid for, from A to Z
well then that's good you offered,has she ever asked for large amounts of money of expensive things ?
i've got 2 step kids, thou they are a lot younger than your g/fs, from the start they were included in our plans b4 we married. looks like you've both have not agreed on this yet. maybe you should ask her what she truly wants for her kids. as i've said maybe she is embarrassed to ask you to help support her kids.. so maybe your not being fooled
She actually never asked for money, although she has made it clear from the start that as a widow with three children she needed to budget things but she never asked for anything.... and she showed me the invoice of the dermatologist on webcam!well then that's good you offered
i've got 2 step kids, thou they are a lot younger than your g/fs, from the start they were included in our plans b4 we married. looks like you've both have not agreed on this yet. maybe you should ask her what she truly wants for her kids. as i've said maybe she is embarrassed to ask you to help support her kids.. so maybe your not being fooled
I don't think the problem is that she's spending the money legitimately. I think its that you've given her so much money with no real structure to the relationship. To me, you've perceived this as a handout and are worried she'll come to expect more from you as a result of this. You may be right, you may be wrong.
But in my humble opinion throwing money around isn't going to help anybody, money is no foundation to build a relationship on
well a good point is her children are not children any more, the youngest is nearly 18, maybe she can get a job in France and use part of her wage to support her kids (that's what my misses does).
you just need to get her to talk about it, easier said than done thou
are you French or a Brit living in France ?
...just an advice, never show too much money nor pamper women with luxury. You will be loved not because on how much you can guve but because youre a wonderful person. remember this...women are born materialistic, but if they are tame then you'll see the real lady in her. Love is something you cant buy nor bribe with. You can be loved unconditionally without anything in returnLast week I sent her 60.000 pesos to have age spots removed from her cheek with diamond laser peel by a dermatologist, so perhaps she thinks I print banknotes in the cellar......
I bet this is more less what she has in mind but she also is not sure how deep I have swallowed the bait so far. She is very smart and even if she claims she loves me with passion I am sure she has something in mind for her children.
There once was a girl that believed in mankind, that there was still honor and chivalry that existed in everyone of us. She also believed that everyone deserves a chance to prove oneself individually and hoped that the courtesy would be returned. That girl is dead now, and all that is left is her shadow. To give one a chance to prove thyself is a chance for you to become dwindled in the dissappointment.
Well said...just an advice, never show too much money nor pamper women with luxury. You will be loved not because on how much you can guve but because youre a wonderful person. remember this...women are born materialistic, but if they are tame then you'll see the real lady in her. Love is something you cant buy nor bribe with. You can be loved unconditionally without anything in return
Last week I sent her 60.000 pesos to have age spots removed from her cheek with diamond laser peel by a dermatologist, so perhaps she thinks I print banknotes in the cellar......
Are you serious? I have a friend who performs diamond peels for the wealthy in Makati (the business district in Metro Manila) and those don't cost half of what you sent! And your lady friend lives in Davao (a place where the cost of living is lower). I'm honestly shocked that you fell for this hook, line and sinker.
Guys, please don't fall of the sob stories you hear (e.g. pawning stuff off? and diamond peels aren't necessities). It's quite saddening to read so many posts from guys who feel that they're helping when in fact they're only making things worse by continuing the notion that those women have that white men have all the money in the world and that it's only fair to share that money with every Tina, Donna and Laura that "needed" it.
Agree to that
Are you serious? I have a friend who performs diamond peels for the wealthy in Makati (the business district in Metro Manila) and those don't cost half of what you sent! And your lady friend lives in Davao (a place where the cost of living is lower). I'm honestly shocked that you fell for this hook, line and sinker.
Guys, please don't fall of the sob stories you hear (e.g. pawning stuff off? and diamond peels aren't necessities). It's quite saddening to read so many posts from guys who feel that they're helping when in fact they're only making things worse by continuing the notion that those women have that white men have all the money in the world and that it's only fair to share that money with every Tina, Donna and Laura that "needed" it.
There once was a girl that believed in mankind, that there was still honor and chivalry that existed in everyone of us. She also believed that everyone deserves a chance to prove oneself individually and hoped that the courtesy would be returned. That girl is dead now, and all that is left is her shadow. To give one a chance to prove thyself is a chance for you to become dwindled in the dissappointment.
Diamond peel costs between P5K-P10K. This is done on 3 or 5 sessions. The P60K is so much for that even if she bought the recommended facial treatments to maintain the smooth clear skin w/c is nearly P20K, still i find it too much.Last week I sent her 60.000 pesos to have age spots removed from her cheek with diamond laser peel by a dermatologist, so perhaps she thinks I print banknotes in the cellar......
So only age spots from her cheek was removed?... i can't tell how dark it is.... was it like a birthmark? Maybe the amount depends on how it is well rooted deep down the skin..... but P60K is too much!
" The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
They are the ones who care about you, take care of you, those who, no matter what, stay close by... "
Actually she quoted 5 x Ps. 8.000 sessions plus creams and ointment for a total of Ps. 58.000......Diamond peel costs between P5K-P10K. This is done on 3 or 5 sessions. The P60K is so much for that even if she bought the recommended facial treatments to maintain the smooth skin w/c is nearly P20K, still i find it too much.
So only age spots from her cheek was removed?
Did she send you her receipts? Maybe it depends who her dermatologist is.
" The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
They are the ones who care about you, take care of you, those who, no matter what, stay close by... "
Hayden Kho
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
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humm always being updated with the PI
have you watched then the careless whisper dance move
There once was a girl that believed in mankind, that there was still honor and chivalry that existed in everyone of us. She also believed that everyone deserves a chance to prove oneself individually and hoped that the courtesy would be returned. That girl is dead now, and all that is left is her shadow. To give one a chance to prove thyself is a chance for you to become dwindled in the dissappointment.
Hayden Kho
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It's good to have money and the things that money can buy, but it's good to check up once in a while to make sure you haven't lost the things that money can't buy.
Personally, 58,000 is a bit too much quotation....
Diamond peel is nowhere near to that cost, even with facials and wart removal treatment
and including ointments, solutions and all the other maintenance products that go along with it......
I can tell, because i've been having one before, in my single days, before i even met my husband now....
And i'm having it done in a well known dermatology clinic in manila as i'm based there,
and it's a fact that the prices in manila (the city) is way way higher than the provinces, so 58k is quite high for that facial treatment......
But i'm not saying she is trying to fool you, maybe she spent the rest of the money for other important stuff as well as for her family.....
Give her the benefit of the doubt.....anyway, you're due to meet her soon,
so i guess that's the perfect time to clear things out and plan for the days ahead....
Make sure though, that you do that before you marry her, lol....
Everything has to be discussed in the open and agreed upon before you say "I do".....
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
She just told me over the phone she also bought black lingerie
So what? I don't have a pacemaker.....
See? it's give and take, lol, in some way, you get something back from your money, lolShe just told me over the phone she also bought black lingerie
So what? I don't have a pacemaker.....
i'm sure you don't mind spending for her to be beautiful and sexy for you, not to mention her flaunting a sexy black lingerie for you
careful though that she doesn't get so used to it - you spending so much for her beauty stuff.....
it may become a habit later on, lol, and it would cost you, lol
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Goodluck Pacific....She just told me over the phone she also bought black lingerie
So what? I don't have a pacemaker.....
Cheers!
" The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
They are the ones who care about you, take care of you, those who, no matter what, stay close by... "
Sorry, trying to get my head around the situation, she gave you a receipt for the exact amount of money you sent her, but she also bought lingerie with some of the money that was meant to be exclusively for the procedure?She just told me over the phone she also bought black lingerie
So what? I don't have a pacemaker.....
I've just noticed in another thread you gave this lady another 40,000PHP ontop of the 60,000? So thats £1200 to someone you've never met? Wow, I hate to say this mate but rather you than me. If you can afford all that then fair play to you, but in my humble opinion there's something very fishy going, and it makes me quite sad, whether she loves you or not that's a LOT of money
Php 60,000 for a diamond peel??? In Davao??? where did she have it done??? Diamond peels don't cost that much.. I should know.. I just had one... I don't know but I smell something not nice with this...Last week I sent her 60.000 pesos to have age spots removed from her cheek with diamond laser peel by a dermatologist, so perhaps she thinks I print banknotes in the cellar......
I bet this is more less what she has in mind but she also is not sure how deep I have swallowed the bait so far. She is very smart and even if she claims she loves me with passion I am sure she has something in mind for her children.
What's her name? I'll be going home to Davao next week.. you want me to check her out??
First mistake Pacific, you sent her money.. and I'm guessing you haven't met her yet? oh boy oh boy oh boy ... you are in for one hell (oops) of a surprise!
Trust your instincts (for men it's gut feel) boy... if it tells you to be extra cautious, then be extra cautious... if she hates for that, then she doesn't deserve your love... any woman who isn't for the MONEY would appreciate the fact that you are taking it easy with the relationship and not rushing into marriage.. just means that you are taking things seriously.
She's acting like she's 16... I can't wait to meet her!! I'm very serious in meeting her on my trip home.. Let me know.. I can ask people to "investigate" for me... hehehe...
NOPE, not me...Pacific,your going to get ladies later telling you give her the benefit of the doubt.....Understand her.....etc.....etc....etc,you know why?Because they empathise more,
sounds to me she's embarrassed about asking you to help her kids out til they have left uni
so what do you want to happen to her kids (thou not really kids being 23, 19 and nearly 18) ?
maybe she wants them with her or you to help support the 2 younger ones ?
thou uni costs are not much compared to here.
Yep, that's what I thought too... If you will be married the soonest, the sooner she can fly with you & her nearly 18 child might come with her too?
But in a way, if you are going to marry someone who has kids already, you need to reall take some responsibilies for them...
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