my wife now wants me to be so much in control of here life i find it unearving but if you understand her life before you would understand why she has never had the loving caring family upbringing she no relations no one has ever showed her any attention no one has ever cared


so now i am everything to her father figure ,husband ,lover the whole lot

which brings its own concerns but as far as material things go SHE ASKS FOR NOTHING and she never pushed to get married it was me who pushed because i could see a gem but i am a realist