well a good point is her children are not children any more, the youngest is nearly 18, maybe she can get a job in France and use part of her wage to support her kids (that's what my misses does).Originally Posted by pacificelectric
you just need to get her to talk about it, easier said than done thou
are you French or a Brit living in France ?
Chi si marita in fretta, stenta adagio,marry in haste repent at leisure,ask her whats the rush,you obviously dont feel comfortable at the speed its going hence the thread,maybe you should apply the brakes just enough to be in full control,but as I said earlier if your willing to accept a woman with baggage its your duty as a man to carry it for her when she tires.
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
well a good point is her children are not children any more, the youngest is nearly 18, maybe she can get a job in France and use part of her wage to support her kids (that's what my misses does).
you just need to get her to talk about it, easier said than done thou
are you French or a Brit living in France ?
I am a French living in France and I do not believe she can be successful on the job market at 50 with no knowledge of the language and in fact I doubt her children are interested in following her over here.....
Am i missing the point here?
In the email she sent you, it sounds like she is being realistically cautious.
She's waiting to make plans, until you meet properly in person.
From some of your other posts Pacific, I've been getting the impression it's you who is keen to marry quickly?
You haven't met yet...you need to spend time together, a good amount of time, before you make any plans.
Caution has always been advised on this forum, about sending money, to someone you haven't met in person.
I do not think I would rush into a marriage especially after a very bad experience a few years ago....
There are currently 1 users browsing this thread. (0 members and 1 guests)
Posting Permissions
