Am I being fooled???

[New Shoes]

I've been following this thread and my concerns like a few other posters have stated. Personally, from my perspective, I see red flags and hear alarms. I hope everything works out fine for you.

[pacificelectric]

I've been following this thread and my concerns like a few other posters have stated. Personally, from my perspective, I see red flags and hear alarms. I hope everything works out fine for you.

I am the one to be blamed, definitely, especially for the derma thing. I am the one who noticed she had spots on her cheeks and she never mentioned them to me and she even added she always tried not to let them too visible on webcam. She showed them to a physician last year on her annual check-up and she was told it would cost more than she could afford anyway.

I forwarded the photo to my ex-girlfriend who is a dermatologist and she said it should be advisable to have them seen by a specialist. And when I urged her to see a derma of course I made it clear I would cover her expenses and she was honest enough to make it clear that there were several packages and I opted for the best.

I know it looks like I have showed her too easily I have money but I have spent 15 years of my life with a doctor and dermatologist and she told me very scary stories over apparently innocuous spots on the face which turn into skin cancer in a few weeks. So my concern was more her health than vanity or appearance and I am glad the derma assessed her spots as harmless and I do not regret the PHP 60.000 at all. (by the way she knows about my ex-girlfriend being a derma too)

[joebloggs]

I do not regret the PHP 60.000 at all. (by the way she knows about my ex-girlfriend being a derma too)

its your money and why should you regret sending it

anyway i sent my now misses, alot more than that b4 i even met her (don't ask caz i'm not telling you , but enough to get her thru med school, rent etc., so your not the only one, and hey we got married, and it will be err 6yrs in nov, or is it 7

and i wish you the same luck i had

[trader dave]

mrs t recons i have spend in the region on 20k sterling on our relationship over the 2 years thats holidays everything and she is still not in the uk

but at least we are getting nearer


so anyone that thinks having a pilipina gf then getting married is cheap


YOU HAVE A NASTY SURPRISE

[Tawi2]

Its only money Dave,means nowt at the end of the day,and you cant take it with you But think how many foreign angling trips you could have had with that 20K Halibut and sturgeon fishing in alaksa,Carp on the Ebro,Blue Marlin in.....................

[trader dave]

Its only money Dave,means nowt at the end of the day,and you cant take it with you But think how many foreign angling trips you could have had with that 20K Halibut and sturgeon fishing in alaksa,Carp on the Ebro,Blue Marlin in.....................

tell me about it




but she will accompany me in the future so she tells me especialy when i said i must go to these lakes in thailand http://www.fishinginthailand.com/

so i will have my own maid thats life

[Tawi2]

Dave(hope this isnt construed as a thread hijack)if you want to know anything about those lakes ask,I have been to them loads of times Bungsam lan is the best,my biggest cat was 74 Lbs,I was getting at least a 20 Lb'er every single cast,Dont go with guides like Jean Francoise Helias though,just grab a taxi and do it yourself,all the old Thai guys around the lake will help you,british guy called Joe Taylor caught a 400+lb arapima in there Sorry Pacific a thousand apologies.

[lovelylady]

mrs t recons i have spend in the region on 20k sterling on our relationship over the 2 years thats holidays everything and she is still not in the uk

but at least we are getting nearer


so anyone that thinks having a pilipina gf then getting married is cheap


YOU HAVE A NASTY SURPRISE

dave u cant say with that only because money cant bring u happeness in life.it doesnt matter if u cost 20k over the 2 years of relationship with u and mrs t as long she is quite good and nice wifejust wait for the right time she will be there with u always to look after u

[Tawi2]

Got to agree with you LL,in the grand scheme of things 20K really is nowt,I am sure Dave didnt mean it the way it sounded,and I am sure when Pacific steps out of the doors of Davao's airport and walks across the road to the waiting crowd looking for that smiling face he will think his money was well spent making someone happy who makes him happy,swings and roundabouts

[lovelylady]

Got to agree with you LL,in the grand scheme of things 20K really is nowt,I am sure Dave didnt mean it the way it sounded,and I am sure when Pacific steps out of the doors of Davao's airport and walks across the road to the waiting crowd looking for that smiling face he will think his money was well spent making someone happy who makes him happy,swings and roundabouts

yes ur right tawi its doesnt really matter how much u spend of the person as long she will give u in return the happiness u want and ur always be happy.dave always count how much he spend to mrs tmaybe its not enough he receive in return thats way he moan

[joebloggs]

mrs t recons i have spend in the region on 20k sterling on our relationship over the 2 years thats holidays everything and she is still not in the uk

but at least we are getting nearer


so anyone that thinks having a pilipina gf then getting married is cheap


YOU HAVE A NASTY SURPRISE

i would hate to think what I've spent going seeing the misses (air flights, hotels,presents, uni fees, rent, wedding, visa's, etc) over the last 8yrs +

just on visa's its cost me £4,000

[Ladybug_sim]

I am the one to be blamed, definitely, especially for the derma thing. I am the one who noticed she had spots on her cheeks and she never mentioned them to me and she even added she always tried not to let them too visible on webcam. She showed them to a physician last year on her annual check-up and she was told it would cost more than she could afford anyway.

I forwarded the photo to my ex-girlfriend who is a dermatologist and she said it should be advisable to have them seen by a specialist. And when I urged her to see a derma of course I made it clear I would cover her expenses and she was honest enough to make it clear that there were several packages and I opted for the best.

I know it looks like I have showed her too easily I have money but I have spent 15 years of my life with a doctor and dermatologist and she told me very scary stories over apparently innocuous spots on the face which turn into skin cancer in a few weeks. So my concern was more her health than vanity or appearance and I am glad the derma assessed her spots as harmless and I do not regret the PHP 60.000 at all. (by the way she knows about my ex-girlfriend being a derma too)

Hi! I’m just following your thread here .. I heard you before on my bug thread too and I am wondering for now as I really think that you met your gf before so your ok with her but well, they give a very nice advice here and as what I can add some of their opinion, it is really good you do care for her even you didn’t met each other but I think it is not a big issue for fixing her face or skin derma coz for now we need to be practical especially in life as you love her who she is whatever color or look she has I think so she can give it in return for you without worrying for her face or beauty as she is pretty woman and if you are a practical man even you have lots of money you make sure that you use it good for her just don’t spoil her for that coz we are all getting old and don’t know what happen next for the relationship you have… you can do a derma after meeting each other coz in person it is really different something that feel strange each other and then you will find out what other things you don’t like . If you feel things be ok with her after meeting then go on whatever you can do to her the important is you meet her in person then you do your own decision... hope it can add i know you going there soon too so you find it out all ..me and my bug wish you luck and be happy in life