Quote Originally Posted by New Shoes View Post
I've been following this thread and my concerns like a few other posters have stated. Personally, from my perspective, I see red flags and hear alarms. I hope everything works out fine for you.
I am the one to be blamed, definitely, especially for the derma thing. I am the one who noticed she had spots on her cheeks and she never mentioned them to me and she even added she always tried not to let them too visible on webcam. She showed them to a physician last year on her annual check-up and she was told it would cost more than she could afford anyway.

I forwarded the photo to my ex-girlfriend who is a dermatologist and she said it should be advisable to have them seen by a specialist. And when I urged her to see a derma of course I made it clear I would cover her expenses and she was honest enough to make it clear that there were several packages and I opted for the best.

I know it looks like I have showed her too easily I have money but I have spent 15 years of my life with a doctor and dermatologist and she told me very scary stories over apparently innocuous spots on the face which turn into skin cancer in a few weeks. So my concern was more her health than vanity or appearance and I am glad the derma assessed her spots as harmless and I do not regret the PHP 60.000 at all. (by the way she knows about my ex-girlfriend being a derma too)