Stick her in a nunnery The regime might actually do her good as she sounds a little wild at the moment,breaking plates?Is she Greek?But sending her to Dubai is a bit drastic,she stays there for a year and returns to you even more distant than when she left,she needs bonding and understanding not "Bloody hell,that little b&&ch,I know what,Dubai,that'll teach her" because thats not the way,she has been a bit adrift as a kid,she didnt even find out you were her biological mother till recently,what a shock to the system for a child,she doesnt know whether she is coming or going,her world was turned upside down,topsy-turvy Kids need understanding,love,closeness Wheres her dad?Her biological dad?Hasnt he got any influence with her?