yeah sad but true...my life is a big hell diffirent really. During that time all i need to do was to follow my dad or I'll loose everything. But Coullene went through counselling ;last year for her to understand the complexity of the situation. She went good with that. Only started these problems early June...her attitude on being so independent really annoys me at all.Originally Posted by Tawi2
Complex story,but not unusual in Pinas we both know that,hope she isnt going through a wild-phase,but she is only 11Boys are different,my sons 12 but he knows when my eyes widen and my voice is low and quiet fireworks are about to start
I have never hit him,I always threaten to kick his ass,he just laughs,but when my voice is at full volume he is sensible enough to be on his best behaviour for a few weeks.Tell her if she turns off the phone your going to take it away from her,it was bought as a communication tool,if its switched off its uncontactable so whats the use of her having it?Ground her?Theres loads of people on here with similarly aged daughters,anyone else going through the same sort of thing with a girl?Whats the answer?
I used that technique...lowering your voice, making your eyes big but...i think my eye balls would pop out my eyes and she would just ignores me or just do the total opposite. I thought at that age they would be contented playing in their room or reading...got her own cp but always switch off-give her freedom to have visitors but then she prefers going out..I even chat with her every night but not interested at all.
Im more protective as she is female and it is alot hell dangerous having a her out at night especially she doesnt look like 11
