Hi George,
As your fiancee seems to be mapping out the future as she sees it and making so many demands on you already, have you discussed the matter of family support with her, as this is something that is usually the biggest source of disagreement in Filipino/Brit marriages.
Once a foriegner marries into the family, there is usually a very high expection with regard to support and given her already high demands on you in other areas, I think it would be wise of you to get this one sorted out long before you get married....... When it comes to this subject, you really must wear the trousers.
Iain.