Hope your wifes health worries arent serious,though spitting blood in Pinas is often indicative of TB,but thats a worst case scenario.If it was my wife I would be at the airport waiting to board but everyones situation is different,giving money to a family member to pay hospital bills?My friend did it with his mother in law when his child was born,she vanished for several days and turned up looking sheepish having lost the lot in a Mahjong game rather than pay her grandchilds hospital bill Ask your wife to speak to the hospital regarding payment made direct to them,all problems like this have a solution,hope your resolve this conundrum satisfactorily