Quote Originally Posted by lovelylady View Post
i heared from my friend story that his husband not contented what she give in returnhe always say he spend a lot of money already but his wife not yet granted to her visa and until now she still waiting but her husband always moan the expences he spend to his wifebut my friend told him money cant give happiness coz i can give u only in return being fatihful,honest and good wife especially ssssssssshhhhhh never to mentionedhis happy with that but he always mentioned how much he spend to his wife but he been married before and he spend a lot of money than his new wife nowmy friend as me if i can give more option to her about her problem of her husband being selfishguys i need some of u here can give any ideai feel so sorry to my friend why some foreigners always there mind is money and they invest a lot already but wife not yet on there sideim so sorry for u guys if i say something that can touch of ur ego here but not mean all they are

hello...first about the visa, well that is not her fault being delayed with the visa. With the husband, maybe he is stressed on the waiting period. There are two things that being married should be understood. If one complaints about the expenses maybe it is not because to blame the other one but maybe just so disappointed on the delayed. If she thinks her husband is complaining to her about it and blaming her well it should not be like that. She must tell her husband that she is not an investment, but maybe better she clear things with him first coz there is a possibility that it is only mis understanding. As a wife also she must not compare herself from his ex especially on how much the money was used to the other one. That will just make things complicated.

Being a wife, that is her duty to be faithful, honest and trustworthy. She doesnt need to say that to her husband. We are getting married because we love the person unconditionally.