Ok some(not all) Filipinos do have a dependency which really makes us British guys irritated. We are taught that if you want something in life you must work hard for it yourself. I do not mind helping someone for a little bit if they have it hard. Once they are on their feet, get on with it.
This will put a cat amongst the pigeons. Example of ideal situation. Here is a deal miss Filipina. you get a job- you work. I work then we do not argue about sending money. Because- Miss Filipina you may spend your own money. Then I do not have to send money, no argument about it.
I wish money was NEVER in relationship, but it is part of circumstances.
In my situation, Jessica is working at doughnut stall and it makes little money, I still send her money little bit. It just is a fact of life we have to end up sending money for something. I do not like it.
