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    Pinay in the UK

    Pinay in the UK

    Time to be serious. This is especially for those Filipina's who have been here around a year or less. How have you found the UK, what is it like, do you miss home, have you made a mistake? Etc.....
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    In my experience Boss first few months I did but that was then I feel at home now and more settled than ever. and I dont miss PI that much now
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    Hhhmmmm. This is a thread I'd like to see grow!

    I would also like to ask, did any Pinay find support amongst other Pinays?

    What helped the "settling in" process?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Northerner View Post
    Hhhmmmm. This is a thread I'd like to see grow!

    I would also like to ask, did any Pinay find support amongst other Pinays?

    What helped the "settling in" process?
    never rely on other pinays for support
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
    I have never met any pinay in our area not till I was about a year and a half in our area when I enrolled at college but thats about it.IMHO its better to live in a place which is a pinay area free not to offend anybody but its hard to find a true and honest pinay here not unless you knew them already back home.
    Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
    never rely on other pinays for support
    why do you think that?

    do you ever think theres a reason you cant make friends with other pinays close to you,i cant believe other pinays cant be trusted but seeing how some of you cant get on in this forum.....im wondering what is the reasons..
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    why do you think that?

    do you ever think theres a reason you cant make friends with other pinays close to you,i cant believe other pinays cant be trusted but seeing how some of you cant get on in this forum.....im wondering what is the reasons..
    Be a filipino and you`ll learnooopppsss my mouth are sealed Its the thing you`ll learn.Am not saying that every pinay can`t be trusted its just that seldom you find true friend nowadaysOf course I have a Filipina friend here as well am not recluse
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    I have never met any pinay in our area not till I was about a year and a half in our area when I enrolled at college but thats about it.IMHO its better to live in a place which is a pinay area free not to offend anybody but its hard to find a true and honest pinay here not unless you knew them already back home.
    to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
    I have never met any pinay in our area not till I was about a year and a half in our area when I enrolled at college but thats about it.IMHO its better to live in a place which is a pinay area free not to offend anybody but its hard to find a true and honest pinay here not unless you knew them already back home.

    i am glad you said that mrs daddy because i know many think like that but are afraid to say so


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    Yeah, I actually thought that there was a small but active Filipino community around. No wonder Cebu Cafe in Manchester closed down..


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    Quote Originally Posted by trader dave View Post
    i am glad you said that mrs daddy because i know many think like that but are afraid to say so
    I hope I done no harm am just being honest
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
    I have never met any pinay in our area not till I was about a year and a half in our area when I enrolled at college but thats about it.IMHO its better to live in a place which is a pinay area free not to offend anybody but its hard to find a true and honest pinay here not unless you knew them already back home.
    Theres PFZ's (pinay free zones)being set up all over the country



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Theres PFZ's (pinay free zones)being set up all over the country
    Thanks TawiYou know what I mean
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    I know what you mean



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    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    I know what you mean
    Its our Li`l secret
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    Quote Originally Posted by Win2Win View Post
    Pinay in the UK

    Time to be serious. This is especially for those Filipina's who have been here around a year or less. How have you found the UK, what is it like, do you miss home, have you made a mistake? Etc.....
    Will always miss Pinas and will retire in Pinas someday.
    But then I'm flexible, as long as I can work and save and visit Pinas that will be OK!

    Happy having lovely and real supportive in-laws. They're always there They understands how I wish to go home too and support me if I want to go home.

    UK is lovely, breath taking country side I must say!
    Good government spoiling lazy citizens

    On my first year I was shy to speak english. Worried because others may poorly judge my bad english lol. I have phobia in speaking english!
    I was poorly judged by a filipina and a thai that time. I remember.
    But I am proud now, I speak chinese if I can't speak english


    Quote Originally Posted by Northerner View Post
    Hhhmmmm. This is a thread I'd like to see grow!

    I would also like to ask, did any Pinay find support amongst other Pinays?

    What helped the "settling in" process?
    I always helped Pinays, I don't expect anything in return. Some Pinay here are really mean. Their feet are always above the ground.
    But met nice members too.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
    I have never met any pinay in our area not till I was about a year and a half in our area when I enrolled at college but thats about it.IMHO its better to live in a place which is a pinay area free not to offend anybody but its hard to find a true and honest pinay here not unless you knew them already back home.
    Too hard to find true friends overseas.
    I will always cherish my old friends!
    Childhood friends, classmates, and some I've got from Taiwan. They are like old wine
    They knew me a lot, almost everything, and they still LOVE me.

    I dumped pinay friends if they are so mean. You're right Wheelah!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
    I have never met any pinay in our area not till I was about a year and a half in our area when I enrolled at college but thats about it.IMHO its better to live in a place which is a pinay area free not to offend anybody but its hard to find a true and honest pinay here not unless you knew them already back home.
    im lucky then least than a month i met many pinays in cov
    all things are possible!


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    Quote Originally Posted by vbkelly View Post
    im lucky then least than a month i met many pinays in cov
    More or like your place ate bing is like a city or its a city whereas where I live is a small quite town
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    Quote Originally Posted by Win2Win View Post
    Pinay in the UK

    This is especially for those Filipina's who have been here around a year or less. How have you found the UK, what is it like, have you made a mistake? Etc.....
    Hmmmm i'm still figuring it out.....lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    Hmmmm i'm still figuring it out.....lol
    I can't say yet just to agree
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    Quote Originally Posted by Win2Win View Post
    Pinay in the UK

    Time to be serious. This is especially for those Filipina's who have been here around a year or less. How have you found the UK, what is it like, do you miss home, have you made a mistake? Etc.....
    First few months its boring, no job at all, but now a days, it was really great for me, once Jed will be here, cant ask for more, my life was definitely complete, havent done any mistake I guess as my hubby call me angel


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    Quote Originally Posted by Win2Win View Post
    Pinay in the UK

    Time to be serious. This is especially for those Filipina's who have been here around a year or less. How have you found the UK, what is it like, do you miss home, have you made a mistake? Etc.....
    when my first year here in uk,i do miss my son,my family and all my friend,but after 6months i start go to work everyday and make some friend and make money and now i got my ILR

    i dont want to go back home now,i injoy my life here in the uk to live
    because i got everything i want


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    Quote Originally Posted by lizaphil View Post
    when my first year here in uk,i do miss my son,my family and all my friend,but after 6months i start go to work everyday and make some friend and make money and now i got my ILR

    i dont want to go back home now,i injoy my life here in the uk to live
    because i got everything i want
    Almost as the same as mine Liza miss my son, luckily I am working now too, so ease a bit of missing my son


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    Quote Originally Posted by Win2Win View Post
    Pinay in the UK

    Time to be serious. This is especially for those Filipina's who have been here around a year or less. How have you found the UK, what is it like, do you miss home, have you made a mistake? Etc.....
    In my situation Ive been here in the UK for nearly two years now, in my first few months I really missed home but it helps that my husband make sure that I talked to my family almost everyday. Just got lucky I found job here right away which helps me settle and adjust easily and the people in here are so laid back, nice and very friendly..


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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyJ View Post
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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    why do you think that?

    do you ever think theres a reason you cant make friends with other pinays close to you,i cant believe other pinays cant be trusted but seeing how some of you cant get on in this forum.....im wondering what is the reasons..
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    Quote Originally Posted by Win2Win View Post
    Pinay in the UK

    Time to be serious. This is especially for those Filipina's who have been here around a year or less. How have you found the UK, what is it like, do you miss home, have you made a mistake? Etc.....
    On my first few months here it was sooo hard, i used to cry everyday. I dont know anyone aside from philip's family and 1 pinay friend, different surroundings, different kind of foods,and i missed my mother so bad. It didnt help that i was stuck at home (not allowed to work on fiancee visa). cant go out on my own because i'm not comfortable talking to people as my english was'nt that good and i dont undesrtand scottish accent.

    Things changed when i start working, i got to know people, talking to them helped me with my english and understanding the accent. I gained confidence, i made some friends, i got money to buy foods and make fone calls to pinas more often. (philip gave me money when i was'nt working but it doesnt feel nice to keep asking him as he also needs to support me with other things)

    No matter how much i struggle on my first few months here i still dont think i made a mistake. I was shocked with the kind of life waiting for me here in UK, but even if i knew beforehand what it was like i would still have came.

    The descision to come here lead me to my happiness.



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