At the weekend we held a small party for friends the purpose of which was to share the joy of the imminent arrival of our 2nd baby (about 8 weeks). this seems to be an American tradition picked up the Filipinos. I was a little uneasy about "celebrating" before the birth and discussed with the other non filipinos there (Iain Busby, Paul and Chris(leahnews intended) plus a couple of non forum Brits) and we all wll felt that this was tempting fate in some way. With the strong beliefs in the Philipinnes I am surprised that this type of party caught on. In any event it was fun (Louella do you still have the baby bottle!) and I have never seen so much pink with the gifts we received. Thanks to all