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    Quote Originally Posted by trader dave View Post
    some input from the young pilipinas would be nice if you are between 20-30 and have an older husband 40-70 give us your view


    why did you pick an old foregner i already know my wifes answer
    Kev is 13 years oldrer...I like older men (but not too old for me) because they are matured and their experiences in life had helped them to be wiser...and of course I think Englishmen are romantic
    There once was a girl that believed in mankind, that there was still honor and chivalry that existed in everyone of us. She also believed that everyone deserves a chance to prove oneself individually and hoped that the courtesy would be returned. That girl is dead now, and all that is left is her shadow. To give one a chance to prove thyself is a chance for you to become dwindled in the dissappointment.


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    Quote Originally Posted by britishdetained View Post
    Hummm...now i understand thanks. I really noticed that many westerners prefer to date women with brown complexion. But funny how many Filipinas are dying to have their skin whiten

    brown skin some how a blonde white skin pilipina has gone to far west for my liking

    now i must go and cook my dinner as MY NATUREL PILIPINA IS NOT WITH ME YET TO DO HER DUTIES


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    You old romantic you



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    Quote Originally Posted by trader dave View Post
    brown skin some how a blonde white skin pilipina has gone to far west for my liking

    now i must go and cook my dinner as MY NATUREL PILIPINA IS NOT WITH ME YET TO DO HER DUTIES
    very loving husband hummmm

    She is lucky then
    There once was a girl that believed in mankind, that there was still honor and chivalry that existed in everyone of us. She also believed that everyone deserves a chance to prove oneself individually and hoped that the courtesy would be returned. That girl is dead now, and all that is left is her shadow. To give one a chance to prove thyself is a chance for you to become dwindled in the dissappointment.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    I gave you positive rep Dave because your a cheeky &*)(%^$ But its true,at least we both know certain things are unwritten But your right,I am middle-aged,but I aint fat nor Bald,might be a git though

    sorry i was refering to me not you no offence intended


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    Quote Originally Posted by Alan View Post
    .........English women? No way!!!!
    Hi Al,

    Having been married and divorced in the USA and have also seen similar problems in the UK, I would say that the marriage relationship meltdown is more of a "Western" thing.

    Most American men I talked to told me they were frightened of what their wives could do, so they kowtowed and kept their mouths shut......

    I worked in Asia for years and most of the men who I met had married Asian ladies and never looked back.
    I have not met many married men as a group in the UK who have said the same.

    The western litigious societies we live in have made many men unhappy, whilst the ex's seem to profit in marriage break-ups.

    I love my Filipina wife more and more as every day goes by, I never felt anything like this with any western lady.


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    In someways, I'm interested to know myself, why I have gone down this route, flown halfway around the world several times, next time to get married....I'm only going to say I'm glad I have.

    Surely we all strive for something better, for something that suits who we are...Yes sure I've seen one or two ridiculous sites, when I've been in Pinas, but hey, that's life....we all make judgements, all got an opinion.

    I agree with many points raised in this thread, on all sides....we spotted a, for want of a better word, an "opportunity" (that sounds awful, I really don't mean that ) and ran with it.

    If the internet hadnt been invented, non of our lives would have crossed, I definately wouldn't be pursuing the love of my life, if it was just down to writing a few letters a month & waiting for the postman to arrive.

    I know I'm happy...so there you go.


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    Quote Originally Posted by britishdetained View Post
    very loving husband hummmm

    She is lucky then

    we are both lucky sometimes you find a partner and everything is perfect


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    Marriage breake-ups a western thing Apo?You really think so?I wonder how many women on this site had pinoy partners previously Thats what I said originally,its not a Pinay thing,its not a puti thing,its a "Human" thing,we are all individuals,marrying a pinay or a brazilian or an eskimo wont guarantee you a faithfull wife,a good samba dancer nor fresh whale blubber for tea each night,stereotypes have a hint of truth,but we are still individuals



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    Look at the english ladies stories on here also "My boyfriend has kids in the Philippines........." blanket statements arent rooted in fact,it would have been better to say its EASIER to get a divorce in western society,we dont have the expense they do in pinas,but its just as prevalent,seen it often enough,look on a pinay dating website,see how many women have kids from a previous partner,thousands of them Till death us do part isnt the mantra of every single pinay,doesnt happen that way,thats what I am saying about stereotypes Besides,many ladies in Pinas would leave their husband but because they dont have the support network we do,they dont have the social welfare system that would house feed and cloth their children like we do they are forced to stay with the guy and endure years of misery,abuse,and general unhappiness till death us do part,then and only then do they get their peace.



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Alan View Post

    P.S. I fully accept that this is a wholly biased opinion and not reflective of English women - it is just my own opinion - and I am still hurting from 'losing' my children - and part of my life.!
    Ditto..........


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    Quote Originally Posted by britishdetained View Post
    This is for British men only ok...


    Just wondering why many foreigners preffer to marry Filipina than their own country women? What are the traits of Filipina you are being attracted with?
    fate choose my wife... my wife is my life.... my love is my wife.....my life is perfect.....my heart and her heart are one.....we are two people living one life.....two souls united in love.....two minds thinking as one....it is our destiny to be together.......semper fidelis my asawa
    POWER TO THE PEACEFUL. MABUHAY IRELAND AND PHILIPPINES


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    Quote Originally Posted by belfast_dude View Post
    fate choose my wife... my wife is my life.... my love is my wife.....my life is perfect.....my heart and her heart are one.....we are two people living one life.....two souls united in love.....two minds thinking as one....it is our destiny to be together.......semper fidelis my asawa
    How nice...........

    Ok... Ok.... I am gone.....


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    Quote Originally Posted by aromulus View Post
    How nice...........

    Ok... Ok.... I am gone.....


    i wondered when dom would wake up


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    I would find it quite strange if some guy said quite specifically "I want to marry a filipina" because thats marrying and not falling in love with,you could be on a plane flying to manila and meet a pakistani lady you fall in love with instead of wanting to meet a woman from a specific location,you cant help who you fall in love with,its chemistry and spark not location,location,location unless you fall head-over-heels for an estate agent The best looking women in the world are south and central americans and northern Pakistanis,but beauty is in the eye of the beholder?But any guy who says he just wants a lady from a certain country is limiting his options and I cant work out the reasoning

    Tawi does it again!! Good post..


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    Filipinas won't bugger off with another bloke after living with you for 16 years when you have done absolutely nothing wrong - and the courts decide in favour of the mother and force you to pay a ridiculous amount of money when you haven't got it! And taking your two children with her thus giving you depression and jeopordising your career and FORCING the sale of your house and paying a barrister to make sure that you have no chance in court!!!

    Want me to carry on????

    English women? No way!!!!

    Al.

    P.S. I fully accept that this is a wholly biased opinion and not reflective of English women - it is just my own opinion - and I am still hurting from 'losing' my children - and part of my life.

    Thank God I have found Hanna!
    Having met Hanna a few times I will agree that you should "Thank God" for her as she is so obviously a genuinely nice person..Anyone that meets her can tell that..(bloody good cook too)

    I must say though Al not everybody is nearly as lucky as you or I.. Even here.


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    Quote Originally Posted by trader dave View Post
    why did you pick an old foregner i already know my wifes answer
    well, count me out... my fiancee isn't old.. hehehehe...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Northerner View Post
    Very true! I would guess a man from Asia would find a blonde, pale skin woman very attractive. But again there is no absolute rule. I personally like Asian women, but I have friends who prefer Red heads and so on... But personally, I had an interest in the phils and with other Asian countries since when I was young, watching Bruce Lee and then later studying Martial Arts and for a time enjoying Filipino Martial Arts

    Plus, when I think of the places in this world I want to see, I think of Hong Kong, Indonesia, Japan.. And rarely Europe So perhaps my attraction goes beyond finding a mate but to other reasons as well?
    oh, you mean, street brawl!


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    Personally, I never 'wanted' to meet a filipina. I just met one, and fell in love. Neither of us were looking for a relationship, but we certainly found one and we're very happy with it.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Marriage breake-ups a western thing Apo?You really think so?I wonder how many women on this site had pinoy partners previously Thats what I said originally,its not a Pinay thing,its not a puti thing,its a "Human" thing,we are all individuals,marrying a pinay or a brazilian or an eskimo wont guarantee you a faithfull wife,a good samba dancer nor fresh whale blubber for tea each night,stereotypes have a hint of truth,but we are still individuals
    Tawi2, I don't have the divorce rates at hand comparing Asia and the "West".
    I bet the "West" has a much bigger rate of divorce though


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    I have already given you the reason why,most pinays dont have 200K pesos for an annulment,and lots of them suffer in silence They have no finance nor family support so cannot leave their husband but like I said,have a look on this site itself for ladies,and english women connected to pinoy guys,who were in previous marriages.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Look at the english ladies stories on here also "My boyfriend has kids in the Philippines........." blanket statements arent rooted in fact,it would have been better to say its EASIER to get a divorce in western society,we dont have the expense they do in pinas,but its just as prevalent,seen it often enough,look on a pinay dating website,see how many women have kids from a previous partner,thousands of them Till death us do part isnt the mantra of every single pinay,doesnt happen that way,thats what I am saying about stereotypes Besides,many ladies in Pinas would leave their husband but because they dont have the support network we do,they dont have the social welfare system that would house feed and cloth their children like we do they are forced to stay with the guy and endure years of misery,abuse,and general unhappiness till death us do part,then and only then do they get their peace.
    I can see you don't like generalisations and, to a certain extent I can understand why you don't.
    However, I am sure you would understand the many Surveyors and Technicians that I used to work with who love Filipinas more than any other ladies from any other country.
    It is just a "given" to them, and now having married a Filipina too, I can now understand why they all told me they had never looked back.


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    All my old mates married either pinays,indonesians or Thais,just because of the location we were based in,some have fallen by the wayside,some havent,some are married for life,some are not,happens all around the world and isnt specific to pinays,I truthfully know many,many who have seperated from their husbands,and know many more who would do so if their society wasnt so constricting and hypocritical in many ways,just being a realist.



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    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by jam07 View Post
    oh, you mean, street brawl!
    No the noble art of Kali! The noble art of Dumog (wrestling), Panantukan. And the Filipino art of Kino mutai (biting and eye gouging) wait.... Yeah, street brawling


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    All my old mates married either pinays,indonesians or Thais,just because of the location we were based in,some have fallen by the wayside,some havent,some are married for life,some are not,happens all around the world and isnt specific to pinays,I truthfully know many,many who have seperated from their husbands,and know many more who would do so if their society wasnt so constricting and hypocritical in many ways,just being a realist.
    Yes, I can understand what you are saying, I have met some who divorced from their Asian wives also.
    However, I remember so many many more who told me they were so happy and I feel that now with my Filipina wife.
    This is my reality.


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    One swallow doth not a summer make,glad your happy



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    One swallow doth not a summer make,glad your happy
    Well, only one smile from her changed everything for the better so I suppose my "summer" has lasted 18 months so far.
    Thanks for being glad for me........

    Are you married to a Filipina or have a Filipina girlfriend Tawi2?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Florge View Post
    well, count me out... my fiancee isn't old.. hehehehe...
    True storyFlorge theres a lady living in Davao,good family,got a house not far from Marco Polo,educated and the family have a thriving large hardware store in Davao city,she has a late 50's american boyfriend,and she is in her 20's,her mum doesnt like the guy as he wanted an open relationship...blah....blah....blah anyway her mum made me a great meal and I chatted to the daughter,the age gap isnt my concern,the family are friends but she told me she liked older guys,they are more reliable,more romantic etc.I pointed out 3 seperate guys in the street,all pinoys who I judged to be 50+ and asked her did she find them attractive "No Way" then I realised something,its not older guys some ladies find attractive,its older WESTERN guys,if all pinays found older guys attractive as they say how come they dont marry older pinoy guys Western is the key word.



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    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    One swallow doth not a summer make,glad your happy

    that comments on the wrong thread swallow


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    True storyFlorge theres a lady living in Davao,good family,got a house not far from Marco Polo,educated and the family have a thriving large hardware store in Davao city,she has a late 50's american boyfriend,and she is in her 20's,her mum doesnt like the guy as he wanted an open relationship...blah....blah....blah anyway her mum made me a great meal and I chatted to the daughter,the age gap isnt my concern,the family are friends but she told me she liked older guys,they are more reliable,more romantic etc.I pointed out 3 seperate guys in the street,all pinoys who I judged to be 50+ and asked her did she find them attractive "No Way" then I realised something,its not older guys some ladies find attractive,its older WESTERN guys,if all pinays found older guys attractive as they say how come they dont marry older pinoy guys Western is the key word.

    my wifey tells me older pinoys are playboys and a waste of time but of course we are not like that


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