i asked my wife a long long time ago [she has a little boy of 4]
i was testing her i wanted to know what her answer would be
i said to her make a choice betwen me and your son ????
after a short pause she said YOU
SO I ASKED WHY ? HER ANSWER WAS ----you can give me and my son a future HE CANT
I THOUGHT THAT WAS A FAIR ANSWER TO A very difficult question