advice from the beginning of uk male and filipino girl friend relationship

[bystander09]

Hi Stewart,

You are about to embark upon a well trodden road!!

Keep clear of bargirl romances..

Understand your girls background...

Don't flash your money around....

Meet the family....

Try to determine if there is no previous hubby lurking in the woodwork. This could cost you serious money to pay the guy off. Officially its called annulment...

Develop a long term relationship which is not based upon financial donantions..

Document everything. If the relationship works out you will need an extensive paper trail for the embassy when jumping thru visa hoops.

If in doubt... GO HOME....

bystander

[trader dave]

Hi Stewart,

You are about to embark upon a well trodden road!!

Keep clear of bargirl romances..

Understand your girls background...

Don't flash your money around....

Meet the family....

Try to determine if there is no previous hubby lurking in the woodwork. This could cost you serious money to pay the guy off. Officially its called annulment...

Develop a long term relationship which is not based upon financial donantions..

Document everything. If the relationship works out you will need an extensive paper trail for the embassy when jumping thru visa hoops.

If in doubt... GO HOME....

bystander

i think that just about sums it up especialy about bar girl romances