hi Neil,
I think this is really a case to case basis. If you can afford to send each month then good for u. But make sure u know when to say NO.In our case, Hubby and I are both working, we both shared the bills and expenses and what's left is for our savings and if there's still left that's what we send home though I know my parents are not expecting us to send them anything and we're surprised to know that my dad keep all of them in a bank account and they only uses it for emergency i.e hospital bills.
I think it will be better if u discussed it with ur future wife..![]()