Thanks for the replies..
@Tawi2:
You were right about the loan, for some reason, he can't pay it off in full (was set up that way) so he would have to continue to have it deducted monthly from his account. I will ask him to visit the bank and work things out.
But if they cant do anything about it, we just have to explain the situation via the support letter? they will be able to see (on the bank statements) that our savings and monthly budget isnt affected by paying that loan off ..
and yes, he still send money monthly because we need it for additional evidence of relationship and to show that he really supports me and my son (for the remittance receipts). I will just ask him to keep it minimal from now on.![]()