Yes, I'm really disgusted with him too. To be honest, he was with a young girl who he intended to marry when I found him and he sent money home each week regularly by the hundreds...while I kept him for nothing
Anyway, when he got back, she had ripped him off big time and spent all his money and at the time I was really angry. But now, I just think that is was poetic justice for what he's been doing for years. He met a really nice and respectable woman nearer his age and when he had nothing and nowhere to go, she took him into her home. He then rented a place and took her and her children (adult children) to live with him there, taking all her household belongings with them. Then after a few months, he literally threw her on the street!! I was livid and encouraged her to take all her stuff and she did, so then he bad mouthed her for leaving him with nothing! Can you believe the cheek of the man???? He's 54 and advertising for young girls between 18-30 on person.com....makes my stomach churn!!
Anyway, enough of him, he's worthless and I hope he gets his payback one day!!!
In the meantime, I gained some lovely friends and learned about a different way of life, so I benefited in the end and I hope in some way, they did too.