Hi jakeob, I'm 60(in 3 weeks time) just had a baby boy and my life has just begun again..My missus can go out to work because I want to bring him up...but don't worry about the "not having babies" thing, you have each other and thats what counts most of all................................and like bystander09 says....you can use my body as a Proxy if your desperate...hehehehe (although my missus wants a girl now) so I may not have time soon....Take care..