Hmmmm

Jonnijon. How many times have you been to PI now ?

And why the rest of you filipino's are here why hasn't anyone suggested the obvious. Jonnijon if you are, or your wife is still in cintact with the ex husband, which i presume you are, then surely the quickest way to sort the problem out will be to 'buy' your wife off him. Just offer him a grand and he will probably be a little more willing.