He's changing his avatar much more often than socksOriginally Posted by Sophie
or your avatarlol
He's changing his avatar much more often than socksor your avatar
Jiri & Maricel
he certainly does, lolHe's changing his avatar much more often than socksbut i guess with women, he changes every 5 or more years, lol
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Some guys are cavalier in their relationships,not meI change my socks twice a day,my washing machine is always filled with odd-socks
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
You sure are in the right path tawi, keep that upSome guys are cavalier in their relationships,not me
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
WOW!
Can some of you guys try actually try supporting Pumpkin here!. Some of you are so negative and judgemental...straight away "aromulus" jumps to the conclusion that Pumpkins hubby may "dump" her so to be careful ect as his first marriage to a Filipina ended so soon (less thn 2 years)...but why do you assume the failure of this marriage was down to him?, who is to say he was not the victim?, maybe his ex used him purely for a visa as sadly these cases do still sometimes exist...good & bad everywhere so easy to assume the Brit guy is the villain divorcing so soon his poor Filipina wife but the fact is it may well be the other way around...would some of you think and react the same way if the ex-wife was British??...it seems strange to me that a fair few guys on here are on 2nd marriage having been married-divorced to a British woman previously and this is ok, no need to set those alarm bells ringing ect and yet this guy just cause his ex is Filipina and marriage broke down so soon well...some of you seemed to have put 2 and 2 together and come up with 5!!...further more Pumpkin already states that the ex had another guy and so would seem to have cheated and left her hubby for her lover so what should the guy do? stay legally married to her just because the marriage is less than 2 years old??...if he has since gone on to meet Pumpkin and find happiness whilst his divorce is going through then good luck to him..."Tawi" and i know these threads are often the source of humour & jest but your comment of Pumpkins hubby changing his wife more often than his socks is at best insensitive & crass...how does that make Pumpkin feel reading that about her hubby??...shame on you...again i refer back to points made above...if his ex cheated and left him then what was he to do?, would you make such remarks if the guys ex was British and the marriage had lasted say 5 years??...would he then be "changing wives like he changes socks" ??...having a joke is one thing but posting such comments for Pumpkin to read is thoughtless and could be hurtful...maybe some of you need to think a little before you rush to post...well done Lady J for a more balanced response!...good luck to you and your hubby Pumpkin, as long as you have done everything in the correct manner and legally as it appears you have then you should have no problems...just be honest within your application and supply as much evidence as possible to ECO and god willing within a few months you will be together!.
hi stuartpauldavis and pumpkin,
i understand where you are coming from and i am just speaking for myself and for my experience alone. if i made pumpkin felt that i am being judgemental then i apologise. but reiterating my question i have asked her the reason why the marriage ended as it has a big impact on applications not because of his nationality but it's bcos of the duration of the relationship i.e. marriage. you have to bear in mind that for pumpkin to be able to satisfy the requirements in coming to the uk on a spouse visa following will have to be satisfied: (taken from ukvisas.gov.uk site)
1. you are legally married to each other or are in a civil partnership recognised in the UK
2. your husband, wife or civil partner is present and settled in the UK (see the next section)
3. you both intend to live together permanently as husband and wife or as civil partners
you also have to bear in mind that eco's are like you and me, i.e. HUMAN, they see your application like how we see it the only difference is they do this as their living. applications are not scored by machines they are evaluated based on their judgement, etc. i trully hope pumpkin you succeed on your application and good luck you will be needing it not because of your situation but rules and guidance is getting stricter and stricter everyday.
"Success is not about how much money you have; it's about the choices you can make in life"
thanks to you stuartpauldavis..all what u said are on my mind too but am filipina and i try to construct english here so i could'nt say it..again thanks for you
as for tawi,my husband and i share everything our past just before we met and we exchanged each other passwords for email,the email that he use for work , friends family and even banks, we have not even met yet but we trust each other so much.. he let me to read his emails, the emails that he sent to a friend ,solicitor for divorce ,family the stories are the same about his ex-wife fooled her big time...
how could you be with your wife if she tells you "divorce me because i will keep being unfaithful to you" and then pack her things..she did that just after my husband dad died..
anyway, this is enough story now coz there are many..
for you guys who replied to my post thanks for your time..i accept good or bad comments here because i know guys you dont know the real story... but i was hoping we just share ideas here not to judge people..
i believe in my husband i love him so much
you have to look at it from the embassy's point of view, he got married, it didn't last long, you've still not said how long they lived together as a married couple, and within the 2yrs of his ex-wife's visa, he's divorced and married again. I'm not judging or blaming anyone because i don't know the reasons or care to know, i'm just looking at the facts..
but i'm sure you will get your visa, not many spouse visa's are refused, and if it was you probably would win any appeal
good luck thou
Hi! just good to hear some of your opinion too ... Well, they only give of what they think inside of their mind it is not mean a judgemental as I can say that we don't know the whole story so what ever the advice either negative or positive just take on it and learn something on it.. i know Pumpkin know the right things of what she did or she is the one to have a right decision of her life with her hubby we just give the posibelities or some things to think what next .. anyway, wish you luck Pumpkin and just always pray that all be fine with you and your Hubby .. nothing to worry about if it is your life to be with him soon .. trust and understand each other will be the best thing you can do and yes, trials are there but keep strong in life as it is life to go on
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