what would you do?

[maria_and_matt]

I know what I'd do if I was her.. But if I said it, it might get me banned from this forum, so..

The fact that he returns from Thailand with STDs makes me think he is having unprotected sex with prostitutes Tell her to get a full test, HIV, the works.. But she really needs to get rid of this guy.

Tell her to sleep with his boss, that'll mess his head up

i told her to poison him

but i have told her to go to the hospital and have a HIV test done regularly.

her husband is mean, she told me that sometimes when they have sex he covers her face with a pillow

i told her to transfer the moeny they have to an account he does not know of and leave. told her she is better off without him, but she keeps on telling me she loves him and she is praying that he will change. i told her the chances of that happening is so slim. at the end of the day its her life maybe i should just cut off all communicatuon and leave them to it. she gets me down..

[Tawi2]

Covers her face with a pillow you know there are shops in Pinas that sell cyanide for fishermen under the counter?Or she can get castor beans or make abrin,a poisonous lectin from the seeds of.............

[Northerner]

i told her to poison him

but i have told her to go to the hospital and have a HIV test done regularly.

First of all, why the is she still having sex with this

her husband is mean, she told me that sometimes when they have sex he covers her face with a pillow

Just when I thought I couldn't dislike this guy any more, you lay a belter on me I'd have him playing wifey in the Bangkok Hilton if I was your friend The evil things I'd do to him just can't be mentioned

i told her to transfer the moeny they have to an account he does not know of and leave. told her she is better off without him, but she keeps on telling me she loves him and she is praying that he will change. i told her the chances of that happening is so slim. at the end of the day its her life maybe i should just cut off all communicatuon and leave them to it. she gets me down..

[Sophie]

at the end of the day its her life maybe i should just cut off all communicatuon and leave them to it. she gets me down..

That's sort of what i did to my martyr friend back home maria, i got so fed up about her crying and not doing anything about it.....
so i shut down on her, i told her i don't wanna hear about her husband and her crying and moaning about that jerk again....
i told her i've had enough listening to thesame nonsense over and over again, and that i'm so sick of seeing how pathetic she is already.....

I also told her i'm so disappointed with her coz she used to be something before this jerk came along,
she used to be smart and beautiful and confident about herself and she let this jerk took it all away
and made her feel she's not good enough and she doesn't deserve better, and that's what made me really mad.....
she let him take away the best side of her and her self worth and self respect and that's what disappointed me so much
because i've known her to be better than that.....and it's sad she let him strip her off of her dignity and did not refuse to be a victim....

I love my friend but sometimes you have to exercise tough love as i want the best for her, sadly she doesn't realize what's best for her.....
Maybe your friend needs some tough love too maria, she needs to get back to her senses before its too late......

[Sophie]

her husband is mean, she told me that sometimes when they have sex he covers her face with a pillow

why does he cover her face with pillow when they have sex? Is it because he is so disgusted to see her face and turns him off
or he enjoys brutal sex and derives sexual pleasure from inflicting pain and suffering during sex?
Either way, he is a monster, if i were on her place and he did that, the husband will be in the hospital ICU by now or probably on his funeral already ....

[britishdetained]

i told her to poison him

but i have told her to go to the hospital and have a HIV test done regularly.

her husband is mean, she told me that sometimes when they have sex he covers her face with a pillow

i told her to transfer the moeny they have to an account he does not know of and leave. told her she is better off without him, but she keeps on telling me she loves him and she is praying that he will change. i told her the chances of that happening is so slim. at the end of the day its her life maybe i should just cut off all communicatuon and leave them to it. she gets me down..

He should seek psychological help.

too much flirting with girls, and now he is covering her face with pillow...that is mentally sick bas***. Your friend must see a psychologist too as she allows those thing to her. Both are not normal. Good that they dont have any children as I would pity the children more than her. She needs to respect herself by leaving that w****r.

[britishdetained]

If my husband do that to me...well his parents would start collecting parts of his body from different parts of the Philippines

[D&G]

her husband is mean, she told me that sometimes when they have sex he covers her face with a pillow

strange...but did she try to ask her hubby why ..whats the reason behind his unusual behaviour? i find it strange really but it could also be the wifey is too noisy while doing the deed so he has to quite her down

[trader dave]

strange...but did she try to ask her hubby why ..whats the reason behind his unusual behaviour? i find it strange really but it could also be the wifey is too noisy while doing the deed so he has to quite her down

oooooo we are talking about the pillow over the face i cant comment on that

but some women do like to be abused ,dominated even forced to have sex ,roll play it turns them on TRUE


i did not realy mean that sorry

i meant why does this guy or any guy come to that need to be unfaithfull???

me and MRS T have discussed this like we have everything ,no boundaries ,no secrets , a guy is not unfaithfull for nothing ??? right or wrong ??? the guys 40 + he is not a young studd of 20 that needs sex every 2 mins ------ can you see where i am going on this ?????

i will wait for further comment before i carry on

[Tawi2]

Someone phoned your wife Dave From this site I would be a little disturbed if that were to happen to me D&G when I was based in Hong Kong the discos of Wanchai were jam-packed with married pinays each weekend,I also had a mate who had a wierd sort of domestic relationship as his DH was married in pinas but was very friendly with him when his wife wasnt in the house When I read about the demure,devoted,shy,loving caring pinays I always wonder if the guys eulogising live in some sort of Pinay utopia where the ladies never screech like cats,sulk like kids or bang and clash around the house in temper like a caribbean steel-band

[trader dave]

Someone phoned your wife Dave ............... an old ex way before i came on the scene no problem as i told her why does he not just say hello just a strange way to go about things


back to the thread where was i i realy dont agree with those that say .....if my husband makes one mistake i will divorce him

do you realy care that little about your marriage we all make mistakes surely its not 1 strike and you are out

as someone quoted only 1 out of 10 of her friends are happly married i find that very very very sad

but i know what others are thinking .....who are you to talk you are on wife mk 3 of course i have an answer to that as well

[D&G]

i realy dont agree with those that say .....if my husband makes one mistake i will divorce him

do you realy care that little about your marriage we all make mistakes surely its not 1 strike and you are out

as someone quoted only 1 out of 10 of her friends are happly married i find that very very very sad

i agree with you Dave...disagreements should not always end up in divorce. Because we are HUMAN, we are bound to make MISTAKES...(except those habitual mistakes & pre-meditated mistakes though ) I believe that we should give our best to make the marriage/relationship work...and it is not right to "jump ship" at the very first sign of a turbulence.

To hold your marriage or relationship together takes more than mere romance...it takes knowledge, commitment and hard work

[bystander09]

Someone phoned your wife Dave From this site I would be a little disturbed if that were to happen to me D&G when I was based in Hong Kong the discos of Wanchai were jam-packed with married pinays each weekend,I also had a mate who had a wierd sort of domestic relationship as his DH was married in pinas but was very friendly with him when his wife wasnt in the house When I read about the demure,devoted,shy,loving caring pinays I always wonder if the guys eulogising live in some sort of Pinay utopia where the ladies never screech like cats,sulk like kids or bang and clash around the house in temper like a caribbean steel-band

Indeed every coin has two faces...

bystander

[Tawi2]

Indeed every coin has two faces...

bystander

I have always been able to see the obverse and reverse,but some guys arent numismatists and just never see past the face value