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  1. 20th August 2009 #1
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    Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
    she gave me several reasons why she won't leave him... first is love... and 2nd is her belief that he can change...
    In my opinion, that's not love, it's more stupidity (sorry for the word) how can she still love this jerk who is mean enough to cover her face
    with pillow during sex, fools around with other women for god knows how many and gave her STD's.
    If she is still in love with this guy and feels she can still love him despite all that, then i'm afraid she is a masochist....
    And her second reason that he might change? That's a wishful thinking and a complete illusion.....
    But maybe he will change, once she start making things right by standing up to him,
    walk away from the jerk and finally refuse to be a victim for a change....
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
    "The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    In my opinion, that's not love, it's more stupidity (sorry for the word) how can she still love this jerk who is mean enough to cover her face
    with pillow during sex, fools around with other women for god knows how many and gave her STD's.
    If she is still in love with this guy and feels she can still love him despite all that, then i'm afraid she is a masochist....
    And her second reason that he might change? That's a wishful thinking and a complete illusion.....
    But maybe he will change, once she start making things right by standing up to him,
    walk away from the jerk and finally refuse to be a victim for a change....
    Good one soph,I like that "We are women we are strong,we are women we are one.........WOMEN!!!!" Just remembered,I am not female,but hey,I can empathise



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  3. 20th August 2009 #3
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Good one soph,I like that "We are women we are strong,we are women we are one.........WOMEN!!!!" Just remembered,I am not female,but hey,I can empathise
    I guess my being a feminist is coming out quite strongly huh?? LOL
    It just upsets me how some women can just take it and put up being treated like crap
    And i don't get the "i still love him" reason....
    unconditional love does not apply on cases like this, this is over the top and just don't make sense...
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
    "The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"

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    I just remembered that chant from when I was a kid Soph,you probably never heard it but it was the Greenham Common lesbians mantra It stuck in my head for years because those women were scarily masculine They would have lopped off the sleazy guys chlamydia riddled member and stuffed it into his mouth Theres only so many times you can tell his wife something before you need to admit defeat,hold up your hands,and walk away,her life,her choices and ultimately her mistakes



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  5. 20th August 2009 #5
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Theres only so many times you can tell his wife something before you need to admit defeat,hold up your hands,and walk away,her life,her choices and ultimately her mistakes
    I agree, at the end of the day, it all comes down to her choices.....
    and the choices you make can either bring you happiness and bliss or tragedy and failure.....
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
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    The thing with life is your only given what really amounts to a short span,and it soon goes,so rectify your mistakes as soon as you recognise them,this lady looks doomed through her own choice to a lifetime of misery(and scratching)



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    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    The thing with life is your only given what really amounts to a short span,and it soon goes,so rectify your mistakes as soon as you recognise them,this lady looks doomed through her own choice to a lifetime of misery(and scratching)
    I totally agree Very wise words tawi, as always
    "rectify your mistakes as soon as you recognize them" - i like this one so much, it makes a lot of sense
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
    "The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"

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