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    im not sure if you should tell her that your fed up listening to her about it,but if she stays with him he will keep doing it.

    if she wont leave him,tell her to do the same cheat on him!

    and make yourself to busy to see her
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    im not sure if you should tell her that your fed up listening to her about it,but if she stays with him he will keep doing it.

    if she wont leave him,tell her to do the same cheat on him!

    and make yourself to busy to see her

    problem is she knows i dont work, she knows my mobile number and landline maybe i should have my line cut off and switch my mobile off
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
    problem is she knows i dont work, she knows my mobile number and landline maybe i should have my line cut off and switch my mobile off
    i guess your stuck with her? you could always move home if she bothers you that much or get a much bigger dog!
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    i guess your stuck with her? you could always move home if she bothers you that much or get a much bigger dog!
    worth considering i will tell my hubby
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
    problem is she knows i dont work, she knows my mobile number and landline maybe i should have my line cut off and switch my mobile off
    But she knows where you live, so she can always pop up anytime without a warning if you cut your landline and celphone off, lol

    But seriously, i think you should tell her straight that her crying all the time over her cheating husband is getting tiring already
    because she's not really doing something about it and she's not taking your advise as well to move on
    and stop feeling sorry for herself and wallow in self pity, she has a choice, and she should be smart about it.....
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
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    Some people are what we used to call NBV's(natural born victims)they have a victim mentality,bad things in life always happen to them because they dont even try and help themselves out of situations and just wallow in self pity,Hard times beget hard measures,tell her to get herself a boyfriend,good for the goose good for the gander type thing,if she doesnt at least try wash your hands as her mindset is defeatist and this will drag on ad infinitum



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Some people are what we used to call NBV's(natural born victims)they have a victim mentality,bad things in life always happen to them because they dont even try and help themselves out of situations and just wallow in self pity
    Very true
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    Very true
    Yup,victim mentality,they thrive on the pity it elicits from others,easiest course of action seeing as how he is already using her as a doormat is to leave him



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Yup,victim mentality,they thrive on the pity it elicits from others,easiest course of action seeing as how he is already using her as a doormat is to leave him
    exactly, sometimes they enjoy the sympathy they get and they like people feeling sorry for them so they get stucked as victims.....
    "10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Some people are what we used to call NBV's(natural born victims)they have a victim mentality,bad things in life always happen to them because they dont even try and help themselves out of situations and just wallow in self pity,Hard times beget hard measures,tell her to get herself a boyfriend,good for the goose good for the gander type thing,if she doesnt at least try wash your hands as her mindset is defeatist and this will drag on ad infinitum
    Or just give her Tawi's phone number


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    Nope,I like mentally strong women(they need to be,I do strange things sometimes)



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    But she does need to jettison him,and alter her perception of herself,forget catholicism for a while,its like the heavy sack of rocks Buddhists carry through their present life if they were naughty(and who wasnt)in their last existance,tell her to learn to like herself,if she doesnt listen grab a handfull of hair and try banging her head against a wall,preferably brickwork and not stud partitioning



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    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Nope,I like mentally strong women(they need to be,I do strange things sometimes)


    Actually, tell her to take up a hobby like, say.. Mixed Martial Arts Apart from being surrounded by mostly men who like to get roughed up whilst half naked. A good few of them will be trying to get into her, and her husband will know it!

    And he can't exactly march down there for a shouting match, can he

    And with a little luck she will lose the victim mentality


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Nope,I like mentally strong women(they need to be,I do strange things sometimes)
    strange things?


    anyway maria i think advise her to report her husband to the authority then leave him or he will do that again and again. She may soon realised she had buried herself in a relationship that full of pains and insecurities.


    or if she want she can do what Muslim women does if their husband cheat on them... cut his *****
    There once was a girl that believed in mankind, that there was still honor and chivalry that existed in everyone of us. She also believed that everyone deserves a chance to prove oneself individually and hoped that the courtesy would be returned. That girl is dead now, and all that is left is her shadow. To give one a chance to prove thyself is a chance for you to become dwindled in the dissappointment.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Northerner View Post
    Or just give her Tawi's phone number

    tawi2 whats ur number?
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    This is a sad fact of life but true,anyone who wants to say "No way,thats crap" please feel free to chip in,its just been my observation over the years,your experiences might be different...Buttttt some guys marry pinays,or Thais,and date only those submissive(or so its percieved in the west)oriental types because they know they can use,abuse,and cast them away and still they run back for more(or so it seems to Mr Ego)he probably doesnt look like Brad Pitt(maybe Brads Arm-Pitt)but is using her character weakness or dependancy or submissive demeanour and having his cake and eating it,loads of those types of guy around,he wont stop unless she gives him a wake-up call,if she doesnt she is setting herself up for a lifetime of mental anguish every time he goes away on a (monkey)business trip



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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