what would you do?

[Northerner]

Some people are what we used to call NBV's(natural born victims)they have a victim mentality,bad things in life always happen to them because they dont even try and help themselves out of situations and just wallow in self pity,Hard times beget hard measures,tell her to get herself a boyfriend,good for the goose good for the gander type thing,if she doesnt at least try wash your hands as her mindset is defeatist and this will drag on ad infinitum

Or just give her Tawi's phone number

[Tawi2]

Nope,I like mentally strong women(they need to be,I do strange things sometimes)

[Tawi2]

But she does need to jettison him,and alter her perception of herself,forget catholicism for a while,its like the heavy sack of rocks Buddhists carry through their present life if they were naughty(and who wasnt)in their last existance,tell her to learn to like herself,if she doesnt listen grab a handfull of hair and try banging her head against a wall,preferably brickwork and not stud partitioning

[Northerner]

Nope,I like mentally strong women(they need to be,I do strange things sometimes)

Actually, tell her to take up a hobby like, say.. Mixed Martial Arts Apart from being surrounded by mostly men who like to get roughed up whilst half naked. A good few of them will be trying to get into her, and her husband will know it!

And he can't exactly march down there for a shouting match, can he

And with a little luck she will lose the victim mentality

[britishdetained]

Nope,I like mentally strong women(they need to be,I do strange things sometimes)

strange things?


anyway maria i think advise her to report her husband to the authority then leave him or he will do that again and again. She may soon realised she had buried herself in a relationship that full of pains and insecurities.


or if she want she can do what Muslim women does if their husband cheat on them... cut his *****

[trader dave]

as usual i am going to say something different it is all very well us telling her to use our sometimes stupid divorce laws

if they was both living in the philippines and she went to see her priest and said father my husband is a to me and he is unfaithfull

what would the preist say ............... forgive him ????

[maria_and_matt]

Or just give her Tawi's phone number

tawi2 whats ur number?

[Tawi2]

666

[maria_and_matt]

666

thought its 69

[lizaphil]

666

Oi that is the sign of the DEVIL

[Tawi2]

Oi that is the sign of the DEVIL

Well spotted