Yup,victim mentality,they thrive on the pity it elicits from others,easiest course of action seeing as how he is already using her as a doormat is to leave him
exactly, sometimes they enjoy the sympathy they get and they like people feeling sorry for them so they get stucked as victims.....
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react" "The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"