what would you do?

[maria_and_matt]

thats why when hes at work she should pack up and go stay with a friend maybe maria

then he might realise what he will lose,if he doesnt come looking then she needs to leave him?

or maybe she can stay with u

[bornatbirth]

or maybe she can stay with u

anytime

we only live 5 mins from you,so she can come and chat with you while im at work

what if she did come and stay with you for a few days and her hubby didnt look for her and stuck with you for months??

[maria_and_matt]

anytime

we only live 5 mins from you,so she can come and chat with you while im at work

what if she did come and stay with you for a few days and her hubby didnt look for her and stuck with you for months??

she stayed with me for a month last year while hubby was away on a 'business' trip... never again... and i mean never, all she talked about was STD's her hubby gave her... and she cried a lot... i do not do crying very well unless someones died

[Tawi2]

she stayed with me for a month last year while hubby was away on a 'business' trip... never again... and i mean never, all she talked about was STD's her hubby gave her... and she cried a lot... i do not do crying very well unless someones died

STD's Seriously that is sad,she needs some form of self esteem affirmation and counselling,her husband sounds like a slug How old is he?

[maria_and_matt]

STD's Seriously that is sad,she needs some form of self esteem affirmation and counselling,her husband sounds like a slug How old is he?

he is in his 40's... she miscarried 2 years ago, the cause..... be ready for this, its some sort of STD he picked up in Thailand. chlamydia (had to google that for the spelling)... so sad but if she lets him get away with all this the abuse will never stop. its a loonnnggggggggg story, im just so fed up i am past caring already

[Northerner]

he is in his 40's... she miscarried 2 years ago, the cause..... be ready for this, its some sort of STD he picked up in Thailand. chlamydia (had to google that for the spelling)... so sad but if she lets him get away with all this the abuse will never stop. its a loonnnggggggggg story, im just so fed up i am past caring already

I know what I'd do if I was her.. But if I said it, it might get me banned from this forum, so..

The fact that he returns from Thailand with STDs makes me think he is having unprotected sex with prostitutes Tell her to get a full test, HIV, the works.. But she really needs to get rid of this guy.

Tell her to sleep with his boss, that'll mess his head up

[Tawi2]

No way,his bosses todger might develop those gungy pustular eruptions and leak snot coloured puss after sleeping with her,she really needs to leave that guy but you know what?She wont

[maria_and_matt]

I know what I'd do if I was her.. But if I said it, it might get me banned from this forum, so..

The fact that he returns from Thailand with STDs makes me think he is having unprotected sex with prostitutes Tell her to get a full test, HIV, the works.. But she really needs to get rid of this guy.

Tell her to sleep with his boss, that'll mess his head up

i told her to poison him

but i have told her to go to the hospital and have a HIV test done regularly.

her husband is mean, she told me that sometimes when they have sex he covers her face with a pillow

i told her to transfer the moeny they have to an account he does not know of and leave. told her she is better off without him, but she keeps on telling me she loves him and she is praying that he will change. i told her the chances of that happening is so slim. at the end of the day its her life maybe i should just cut off all communicatuon and leave them to it. she gets me down..

[Sophie]

he is in his 40's... she miscarried 2 years ago, the cause..... be ready for this, its some sort of STD he picked up in Thailand. chlamydia (had to google that for the spelling)... so sad but if she lets him get away with all this the abuse will never stop. its a loonnnggggggggg story, im just so fed up i am past caring already

I had a friend exactly like yours back home, she is like the queen of all martyr's and all she does is cry and seek my comfort and sympathy.....
but in the end, i got fed up of hearing thesame thing and giving my advise over and over but she never listens, like i'm talking to a wall.....
Like you, i also got to a point where i've gone past caring already and i wanted so much to just hit her head on the wall so she wakes up and gets to her senses.....