Quote Originally Posted by jakeob View Post
I'am here again looking for possible pitfalls in my masterplan. At this stage i am chatting with a young woman who has a child shes 23 and i'am 42. Shes totaly beautiful and i'am at best mr average. I can live with the family support thing to a certain degree. I would treat her very well when she comes to the uk, treat her kid as my own, "I cant have kids" but this would be sorted at the beggining.

Obviously i we think we have fallen in love get married, shes from what i can see is from a decent familly, shes not the bar girl type ect ect,,

From what you members have learned about mixed couples in my possible cinario, and taking into account the girl is very beautiful, and the man is not rich, what would be a guestimate of long term success???

I hope that made sence?
The difference in years is greater in my marriage and my wife is a beautiful Filipina. We are both very happy, except for her "tampo" at times
It is how you both try to keep the relationship going when you are finally together that counts.
Getting her visa is a difficult process but if you both love each other, anything can be achieved in life.
What you put in is often what you get out