Originally Posted by jakeob
Hi Jakeob,
I was 24 and my husband's 41 when we got married. I won't tackle about how we are physically as I didn't really think about it at the time.
I commend Florge's post. My husband and I spent a lot of time together before we decided to marry. It made a big difference at the time of the wedding because we both didn't have any hesitations that what we're doing is right. We were both comfortable, and looking forward to a lifetime of being together.
Philip and I are getting stronger together. We never discussed our age at all. It's just a number (or numbers) -- what's important is your level of thinking. Beauty? It's good to be beautiful but physical beauty is superficial, what's important is the person within.
You are not rich. If that's an issue for her, then don't marry. Please don't ever believe that you have to be rich to be able to marry a Filipina and have a lasting relationship. On your own way, you can show her that you are not exactly Mr. Branson. If she's true to you, then this won't matter.
Wishing you all the best!
