huhuhu im loosing hope of finding real friends or a girlfriend

[Sophie]

i prefer to be used than have nothing, i treasure every moment with people

Don't settle for just that, you don't think you deserve to be just used, do you?
Being used by someone is not something you should consider as a moment worth-treasuring.....
Remember, how you see yourself is exactly how other people will see you...
I suggest you build your self confidence, enhance your good qualities and get yourself exposed to women
so you get more comfortable around them and overcome your shyness....
it's just a matter of time and you'll be on your feet and women will be enjoying your company while you're just being yourself...

Do not force your way into a relationship thinking it doesn't matter if she use me, as long as i got someone and not alone.....
Let's face it, you'll still feel as alone as ever, even when you're with someone, if she doesn't genuinely love you and is just using you....
There's a saying that says "I'd rather be alone for the right reasons, than be with someone for the wrong ones"
Think about it tony.....wouldn't it be nice to be with someone whom you love and genuinely loves you back.....

[Northerner]

Don't settle for just that, you don't think you deserve to be just used, do you? ....

Agreed with everything you said!

[Tawi2]

Agreed with everything you said!

Except the "Get yourself exposed to women" part It might be taken literally

[Sophie]

Except the "Get yourself exposed to women" part It might be taken literally

LOL, if tony thinks the way you do now, then he might

[Tawi2]

LOL, if tony thinks the way you do now, then he might

I am just trying to cover it from all angles Soph Not "Cover it" as in somethings exposed,I just mean cover it as in the situation

[Sophie]

I am just trying to cover it from all angles Soph Not "Cover it" as in somethings exposed,I just mean cover it as in the situation

I get what you mean tawi, lol
I guess what i was saying to tony is, he should be more exposed to women in the sense that he should talk to women more,
make a lot of women friends either in person or in friendster and facebook as what boss keith earlier suggested already,
that way he could overcome his shyness and get more comfortable around women...
And by that, i mean wholesome women tony, ok? lol
And i hope you don't end up as a womanizer by the end of this process, lol

[Northerner]

Excellent Tony

Join some of those classes at the gym as well. You'll find tons of women in them, even if nothing hapens just to be in their company should boost your confidence and help you loads

Just think of that "Call on Me" music video Then again, better not

[Tawi2]

Just concentrate on your training Tony k?Boost your image,you should notice a difference in 3 months,slow gradual steps,your not going to look like schwarzenegger the first week,you cant rush mother nature k?Decent diet You probably already have good cardiovascular from the biking,your right mate women arent sex objects,and exercise is better than sexercise(unless its with Jennifer Lopez) that beating heart of yours could be because your overdoing the biking

[Sophie]

or penelope cruz :

[Tawi2]

or penelope cruz :

Heyyyyyyy Great minds think alike

[Sophie]

Heyyyyyyy Great minds think alike

LOL, my husband fancies her along with angelina jolie, but i don't mind as long as they don't move next door

[Northerner]

or penelope cruz :

Don't get Tawi started The list will go on and on....

[Sophie]

Don't get Tawi started The list will go on and on....

I could already imagine

[Northerner]

...unless its with Jennifer Lopez

Sorry, had to drop this one in here... No, this is not J-Lo She's my Rizza

[Sophie]

Sorry, had to drop this one in here... No, this is not J-Lo She's my Rizza

And a gorgeous one at that I bet you can't wait to get to the philippines to be with your lovely girl

[Northerner]

And a gorgeous one at that I bet you can't wait to get to the philippines to be with your lovely girl

Oh, I'm counting the days 65 of them to go... Thanks Sophie...

[Queenbee]

go D and G!well said mate!I LOVE THIS FORUM!

Toni jst be yourself coz women can feel if one is a faker,,,Dnt keep on looking too hard cz when u stop lookin,ul be jst surprised..

When it comes to meeting women, it's no secret that men have certain requirements. Some like tall women, others like short women, while others prefer intelligent women. But let's not kid ourselves; most men would be willing to compromise their strict requirements if the opportunity to sleep with a woman arose.

women jst want men who loves to take good care of themselves,responsible and knws what he reallly wants and goes for it,,,I love tawi tawi said,BOOST yah IMAGE...And also dnt forget, be pure at heart and stay as sweet as you are...Be confident with yourself,not too confident though,hehehe

I believe everyone deserves to be happy,maybe its not the right time for you yet. I kn cz im truly happy right now i met again my soulmate...You can never meet your destiny twice,SERENDEPITY,,,thats my fav word..

[Tawi2]

Good choice of favourite word That used to be mine till I discovered the likes of Aeaeae,yemless and ultracrepodarian Tony will be fine,he just needs to find himself,boost his self confidence,and maybe get to the root of what caused his original lack of self-esteem.

[Queenbee]

oh tawi tawi sexercise is the BEST exercise,,,

[Queenbee]

oh jst wonderin,haven't had a girlfriend for 10 years?hmmm
curious,,,

i just wonder...