Just been lied to

[joebloggs]

Triple5, i know how you feel but, you should still give the girl a chance, I had a much worse experience with a girl from Ukriane, in short i had met this beautiful girl returned home and wrote to her for 3 months,,, i played it all realy cool never gave her any commitment in our letters, just the fact that i would come back to see her, and i avoided any lovey dovey talk. when i did go back she was with a Canadian, who visited her the week before me, they were engaged. To this day i believe Victoria was a good person, and i hear shes still happly married to that guy. I was pissed at the time but learned a lession. If even you meet a girl but dont give her some commitment, some warmth and loving, then its open season. goes both ways.

Just do your best, and hope it goes well for you

n

you missed the boat

thats why you need to go and see the gal asap, then you will both have a better idea if you want to take it further, and stake your claim dont do what i did, keep her waiting for 2 1/2yrs. it will only cause problems

[IainBusby]

You need to realise that many of these chatsites are overrun with scumbags who are only interested in some form of cybersex. Most of the girls that sign up to these sites have probably come across their fair share of them and because of that I think they condition themselves not to get carried away with it all for fear of being led on and getting hurt.

You may have told her you are going to visit her, but take my word for it, she won't truly believe it until she meets you at the airport.
Iain.

[joebloggs]

You may have told her you are going to visit her, but take my word for it, she won't truly believe it until she meets you at the airport.
Iain.

thats what my misses said , i told her for many months i would go and see her, but each time I delayed it, (no holidays left, made redundant, etc) told me if i didn't come by such a date, don't bother at all , i didn't go then either..

not a good idea

[Sim11UK]

You may have told her you are going to visit her, but take my word for it, she won't truly believe it until she meets you at the airport.
Iain.

Very true Iain, we were talking about this the other day.

[Tawi2]

Its true a lot of guys promise the earth and the kitchen sink but on the flip side of the coin I have seen girls not on one occassion but many times with several windows open chatting to multiplicities of guys at the same time,and its not always the guys who broach the topic of cyber-sex first either lots of pinays nowadays play the cyber game Thats fact however we like to dress it up,any of you remember the tagum scandal from last year I think?That wasnt an isolated incident

[Northerner]

You may have told her you are going to visit her, but take my word for it, she won't truly believe it until she meets you at the airport.
Iain.

Tell me about it Every time I talk with Rizza it is always "If". Too many guy's out there make it difficult enough for us in the first place, but I can see firsthand how pinays will not truly believe it until they are at the airport with their mahal!

[Northerner]

[triple5]

Hey guys, thanks for all the advice. I should have listened to you all before on an older thread, but I didnt and wasted another 3 months on a dead end situation So I've taken what was said on board and not even mentioned the facebook thing. We had a good chat today actually, and I assured her again I'd definitely be visiting her. I'll buy my ticket in a few weeks, and like Northerner suggested I'll email her a copy of the ticket.

I guess after my previous dodgy experience I was just overreacting. Now it's become a challenge, any other suitors have got a battle on their hands

thanks again