Quote Originally Posted by triple5 View Post
Yes she is the only one I've been chatting to online. Since I first met her I dropped all contact with any others. I haven't made any commitment to her except telling her how much I like her and will visit her. I've made it clear I'm looking for a long term relationship/wife. Not sure how you commit to somebody you haven't met in person yet
You just answered your own question in a way. Think about it! Your not making any commitment to her until you see her first So she is still on a tightrope in a way. And, yes.. From your side you are correct in taking things slow, but so is she by keeping penpals who may or may not come to some use later