Just been lied to

[triple5]

Wait, I need to get my head around this

Are you actually in a LDR with this girl? Has she said she wants to be in a LDR with you? Have you both spoken about it, or are you just assuming youre in a relationship? Does she know shes in a LDR?

How do you want to define a LDR? For me it doesn't really start until you've met them in person and returned home. It seems a little pointless to me promising the earth before I've even met her. We could meet in person and find we're not at all compatable. When we were chatting recently we talked about me meeting her family, so I figured we were heading in the right direction.

Is she fully aware of how you really feel about her?

I have told her, but she said something similar to what you said - that guys just tell you what you want to hear.

[Sophie]

I have told her, but she said something similar to what you said - that guys just tell you what you want to hear.

LOL, just as i thought Well, if you're really interested then go and visit her and prove to her you're for real......
but if you were put off with her lying about the facebook stuff and change your mind, then i guess you're also entitled to that...

[Northerner]

She is being as cautious as you are by the sound of it all! Let it go, forget about the facebook thing.. She has not actually done anything wrong and now you know there are 2 hansome guy's with her in mind... Time to outpace them

Get to the Philippines and just enjoy yourself. Don't try to use her and don't make her think you only want sex. If it happens it is because it will happen, not because it was coerced You have to prove yourself to her as well, just because you are a westerner do not think she is in the bag! If she is pretty (and I suspect she is) then there will be a fair amount of interest in her if she made herself available on dating websites..

Get over there and sweep her off her feet if she is the one for you