Just been lied to

[joebloggs]

Triple5, i know how you feel but, you should still give the girl a chance, I had a much worse experience with a girl from Ukriane, in short i had met this beautiful girl returned home and wrote to her for 3 months,,, i played it all realy cool never gave her any commitment in our letters, just the fact that i would come back to see her, and i avoided any lovey dovey talk. when i did go back she was with a Canadian, who visited her the week before me, they were engaged. To this day i believe Victoria was a good person, and i hear shes still happly married to that guy. I was pissed at the time but learned a lession. If even you meet a girl but dont give her some commitment, some warmth and loving, then its open season. goes both ways.

Just do your best, and hope it goes well for you

n

you missed the boat

thats why you need to go and see the gal asap, then you will both have a better idea if you want to take it further, and stake your claim dont do what i did, keep her waiting for 2 1/2yrs. it will only cause problems

[IainBusby]

You need to realise that many of these chatsites are overrun with scumbags who are only interested in some form of cybersex. Most of the girls that sign up to these sites have probably come across their fair share of them and because of that I think they condition themselves not to get carried away with it all for fear of being led on and getting hurt.

You may have told her you are going to visit her, but take my word for it, she won't truly believe it until she meets you at the airport.
Iain.

[joebloggs]

You may have told her you are going to visit her, but take my word for it, she won't truly believe it until she meets you at the airport.
Iain.

thats what my misses said , i told her for many months i would go and see her, but each time I delayed it, (no holidays left, made redundant, etc) told me if i didn't come by such a date, don't bother at all , i didn't go then either..

not a good idea

[Sim11UK]

You may have told her you are going to visit her, but take my word for it, she won't truly believe it until she meets you at the airport.
Iain.

Very true Iain, we were talking about this the other day.

[Tawi2]

Its true a lot of guys promise the earth and the kitchen sink but on the flip side of the coin I have seen girls not on one occassion but many times with several windows open chatting to multiplicities of guys at the same time,and its not always the guys who broach the topic of cyber-sex first either lots of pinays nowadays play the cyber game Thats fact however we like to dress it up,any of you remember the tagum scandal from last year I think?That wasnt an isolated incident

[Northerner]

Its true a lot of guys promise the earth and the kitchen sink but on the flip side of the coin I have seen girls not on one occassion but many times with several windows open chatting to multiplicities of guys at the same time,and its not always the guys who broach the topic of cyber-sex first either lots of pinays nowadays play the cyber game Thats fact however we like to dress it up,any of you remember the tagum scandal from last year I think?That wasnt an isolated incident

I am actually curious to walk into one of these cyber cafes to see this.. I wonder if the pinays in there would feel a little self concious knowing a white man was walking around them?

[Tawi2]

I am actually curious to walk into one of these cyber cafes to see this.. I wonder if the pinays in there would feel a little self concious knowing a white man was walking around them?

Depends who you are look out for the cafes with "Private rooms" there used to be one just off fuente osmena in a side street near the gun shop,lots of pinays play the cyber game,I was there last year when a 15 or 16 year old kid was caught during her lunch hour putting on a show for an old american using an adult toy,the cafe was closed down but its far from uncommon,and guess what?Its on the increase

[Northerner]

Depends who you are look out for the cafes with "Private rooms" there used to be one just off fuente osmena in a side street near the gun shop,lots of pinays play the cyber game,I was there last year when a 15 or 16 year old kid was caught during her lunch hour putting on a show for an old american using an adult toy,the cafe was closed down but its far from uncommon,and guess what?Its on the increase

Pretty scary when you get 15 or 16 year olds putting on sex shows for men over the internet I cam accross some of these on some scambaiting sites I visited a while ago and I remember the tell tale sign was a closed shower curtain in the background

[Northerner]

You may have told her you are going to visit her, but take my word for it, she won't truly believe it until she meets you at the airport.
Iain.

Tell me about it Every time I talk with Rizza it is always "If". Too many guy's out there make it difficult enough for us in the first place, but I can see firsthand how pinays will not truly believe it until they are at the airport with their mahal!