Hey guys, thanks for all the advice. I should have listened to you all before on an older thread, but I didnt and wasted another 3 months on a dead end situation So I've taken what was said on board and not even mentioned the facebook thing. We had a good chat today actually, and I assured her again I'd definitely be visiting her. I'll buy my ticket in a few weeks, and like Northerner suggested I'll email her a copy of the ticket.

I guess after my previous dodgy experience I was just overreacting. Now it's become a challenge, any other suitors have got a battle on their hands

thanks again