Quote Originally Posted by Florge View Post
i'd rather that I tell him than he finds out about it while I'm talking in my sleep... lol
What if he sleeps with earplugs????

Personally I would not agree and consider that some secrets are better buried forever. i also felt extremely upset when she told me she did not say anything to her children because she wants them to keep respecting her, thus implying that she does not really care whether I respect her or not. Of course I am not on the same emotional level as her children but still that comment hurt me quite a bit and by the now that she sees all the trouble we have been through she starts realizing she might have better kept her mouth shut...