No offense but i think ur being unfair with ur girl.
She had told you her past so you can trust her
and she trusted you by telling her past. It happened
10 years ago its a long time the fact she done it with no
wrong i mean she didnt commit cheating as you said she
was alone and confused even if its for convience or
whatever the reason is its history. We all
have past either good or bad you have to accept
or slowly cope with it. Its hard and embarassing for
a pinay to tell she had sex outside marriage but
she was honest about it with you so it means she
wanted you to accept her coz shes starting a
relationship again with you. Maybe she didnt know
what u think about the topic, wasnt her intention
to get u hurt or upset.
Acceptance in every relationship is important. Asking
for the VD test is kinda embarassing i dont know if
i can take it. But i do feel for you, I myself is a conservative
type too but i want all honesty from my husband some things are
over the top for me but i accepted it.
I know its hard for you to accept what she had told
you but try to be more open and look not to the past
but to the bright future with her. Take ur time to
think things over and with ur feelings for her. It would
be good also if u both will talk more any thing under the
sun to understand each other more.
