Under some circumstances sharing a secret comes down to imposing a burden to someone else. You enjoy instant relief and afterwards can face long-term embarrassment. Should I tell her that as a kid I looked under my schoolmistress' skirt??? (yes I did..) I believe that if you really want to look towards a bright future you should refrain to dig too deep into the past and when honesty means throwing old stuff on the table which will in no way make the relation deeper or richer, no thanks!Originally Posted by miss.piggy
It's not for you to say that she should keep all her secrets which occured beyond a decade ago.
Anyway we will be face to face in three weeks and I guess we'll have other topics to discuss....
