Hi all,
When I first met my now wife online I was upfront that I had been married twice before, as I thought it best her to know from the start.
When after two visits to the Philippines to see her and I asked her to marry me, I did offer to have myself tested, "I" knew that I had not had sex outside of my marriages, but thought that as she was younger it would reasure her.
But she never spoke of it again, and we went on to marry.
At no point did I ask her to take any test.
Mick.
