Spot on im not a RC but that looks like a good old fashion confession to me one mate who is not from a christain background is dating a pinoy girl and he does not get why she confessed to a couple of petty things in her past. He thought it was some kind of cover. Ie he could not imagine a Girl he knew from his past mentioning.Originally Posted by aromulus
Sorry mate, but in my opinion you are making a mountain out of a mole hill.
You should be grateful that she has been open to you and told you about her "mistake", and not resentful for whatever oldfashioned belief you hold.
Openenness and sincerity in a relationship go a long way, and I am surprised that you haven't told her of your past peccadillos and indiscretions, or amorous liaisons.
Why is that, then...???
Because, inwardly, you think it is alright for a bloke to go tomcatting, but not for a woman...?
Would she not have the same rights as you in the eyes of the law???
Don't forget the simple fact that she was not married when she did it, thus not betraying anybody but her own self respect and that of her kids if it came out.
Statute of limitations.....My
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She has shown tremendous courage in confessing to you what she only confessed to her God as a sin before.
You should be proud of having encountered a lady of such high moral standards.
I would make sure that she doesn't escape the net.
I take that as a respect thing from a pinay who as Dom says normally only confess to the big bloke up stairs and his representive in the local church in a little box.
