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    Dave spot on i have said the same she is cold .Its hard because i do love her.


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    Quote Originally Posted by socool007 View Post
    Dave spot on i have said the same she is cold .Its hard because i do love her.
    Have you had any communication with her since she returned home to Philippines???

    It's often said that absence makes the heart grow fonder, so maybe her attitude might change now she's gone back to the Philippines, but if she's the one that's in the wrong, just make sure that you don't have her back unless her attitude has changed completely.

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    its sad to hear that. I hope things will be alright for both of you. But can i ask the same thing as others have asked, is she like that before? did she contacted you now since she went back here? try to check also if you did something wrong to her...if you think you did what best fro your relationship and she still likes that, time to think

    remember that marriage work both ways, both of you must love each other. it cant be a oneway relationship. you must realise that loving someone who doesnt love you is just like killing yourself. if you think its only you who loves her, better end it as early as now...while the pain is not that deep yet
    There once was a girl that believed in mankind, that there was still honor and chivalry that existed in everyone of us. She also believed that everyone deserves a chance to prove oneself individually and hoped that the courtesy would be returned. That girl is dead now, and all that is left is her shadow. To give one a chance to prove thyself is a chance for you to become dwindled in the dissappointment.


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    Quote Originally Posted by socool007 View Post
    Dave spot on i have said the same she is cold .Its hard because i do love her.

    there is not an easy answer to this i am sure she will be in touch when she needs help money ect , or maybe she won't


    mate dont let her mug you off she has not done her job as your wife i cant say to much because theres always two sides to a story only you two know what has happened in your relationship

    i realy dont know what to say only there are a lot more women there who would loved to have been in her position and they would have not betrayed the trust AND THE LOVE YOU HAVE SHOWN HER

    SHE IS THE LOSER NOT YOU


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    Quote Originally Posted by socool007 View Post
    Its hard because i do love her.
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    She made it clear she not wont me.The news come from her brother he say she is living with the boys family.
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    i find out today she has b/f she meet him in disco after we wed he is 15.

    Yikes! Truly complicated you are definitely in a very difficult and heart wrenching situation.....

    Having her around because u love her and realizing that u cannot have a relationship with her anymore when she doesnt reciprocate your love and having a teen bf on the side is a real dilemma. I/WE really feel for you...for any relationship to work, two people must continue to stay involved so if one decides to disengage, there can be no relationship no matter what the other person does...obviously your wife now decided and preferred to continue her illicit affair than save the
    marriage

    To extricate yourself from this difficult situation demands that u make a clear choice..i know it's easier said than done... but if u really want a resolution to your predicament, you need to make a clear decision. You need to make choices for urself...Go in the direction you think is best for you
    "When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place."~ Unknown


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