oh no... its so sad to hear... just what other had said, try to figure out when did it happened.. what are the possible reason why she had changed... youre married now, you better solve the problem, save the relationship. i hope she's also working out to solve this problem!

age doesnt matter, before you get married you both know the consequences especially the big gap...

give her time to think, then dont forget to communicate - its the most important thing. remember the things you've been through before you have each other (i mean all the visa processing, the tension while waiting)..

Godbless you too...