Dave spot on i have said the same she is cold .Its hard because i do love her.
Dave spot on i have said the same she is cold .Its hard because i do love her.
Have you had any communication with her since she returned home to Philippines???Originally Posted by socool007
It's often said that absence makes the heart grow fonder, so maybe her attitude might change now she's gone back to the Philippines, but if she's the one that's in the wrong, just make sure that you don't have her back unless her attitude has changed completely.
Iain.
its sad to hear that. I hope things will be alright for both of you. But can i ask the same thing as others have asked, is she like that before? did she contacted you now since she went back here? try to check also if you did something wrong to her...if you think you did what best fro your relationship and she still likes that, time to think
remember that marriage work both ways, both of you must love each other. it cant be a oneway relationship. you must realise that loving someone who doesnt love you is just like killing yourself. if you think its only you who loves her, better end it as early as now...while the pain is not that deep yet
There once was a girl that believed in mankind, that there was still honor and chivalry that existed in everyone of us. She also believed that everyone deserves a chance to prove oneself individually and hoped that the courtesy would be returned. That girl is dead now, and all that is left is her shadow. To give one a chance to prove thyself is a chance for you to become dwindled in the dissappointment.
Hello,
Ohh dear sorry to hear about your situation,age doesnt matter when two people love each other.
Possibly it does in this particular case?
I remember you waiting a long time for your visa, she must have only been here a few months?
This is a very sad story. I admire any Filipina, who has packed up her old life, for frontiers new & can make a go of it.
I hope you can both resolve your differences, if you want to.
It sounds to me that things have broken down, and it doesn't look like she is interested.
I know generalisations are not always agreed to in this forum, but it seems to me that almost all the Filipinas try their best to make a real "go" of things when they arrive.
If there is no affection shown and she is texting other men it looks bad to me.
People have been able to solve problems but see how she feels after being home in the Phils for a month or so.
She might have a change of heart but she must be honest about everything to you, so you can build up trust and closeness again.
Best of luck.
Her real anty lives nr but she would not talk, she did tell her that she not love me but will try.When she got visa did not hurry over.As soon as she got home she phoned me not to let me know she is safe just to ask my help because cant get cash out of ATM,not a word since.It is sad, but you are all great on this site.
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Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Is this a joint account that she's trying to access and you have blocked or is it her own account in which case it maybe blocked because she didn't inform them that she will be in Phils.
there is not an easy answer to thisi am sure she will be in touch when she needs help money ect , or maybe she won't
mate dont let her mug you offshe has not done her job as your wife
i cant say to much because theres always two sides to a story
only you two know what has happened in your relationship
i realy dont know what to say only there are a lot more women there who would loved to have been in her position and they would have not betrayed the trust AND THE LOVE YOU HAVE SHOWN HER
SHE IS THE LOSER NOT YOU
hope we can time travel and go back to when we can "un-marry" you... but, this is the present... I am truly sorry to hear this.. I mean, after marrying you and going through the visa application.. everything ended up on this moment...
i wish that you will find the courage to make the right decision.. whether to continue to be her husband and make her fall in love with you.. or whether to decide to fall out of love and move on...
I always believe that love is a decision...
good luck and hang in there...
Just makes you wonder, what her reasons were for going through with the marriage and visa process?
Maybe, she has found the UK is just too alien to her?
That dosen't explain her texting those other men though?
just wondering how well do u kow each other before both got married?
The money was her wage it was because she did not tell banko.
I am starting a new thread on this very subject, as it does need covering, so look out for a subject entitled
Long way to go for a date !
hope you all enjoy reading !
Pete_Forum Moderator
Philippines marriage, Courtships, UK Entry Clearance
I'm sure we'll all look forward to that one Pete.
Iain.
we do really enjoyed reading it Kuya Peter..
STOP PRESS i find out today she has b/f she meet him in disco after we wed he is 15.
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Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
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Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
The simple fact is you cannot trust her
The choice is yours but love and trust really needs to be a two way street!
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Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
i totally agreeFlip side of the coin
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
Now i no her game its over .She made it clear she not wont me.The news come from her brother he say she is living with the boys family.
sadly i have to agree with the others she has betrayed your trust for me there is only one way to go .......
dont give in because i am sure she will be in touch ...... can you help me
all i can say is i know my wife would like to have a few words in her ear
oh dear , i would never have thought to treat my husband like that...
soCool just be cool, i know it is hard to bring back your life again.. but you must also think that everything has happened with purpose..so just think positive now and everything will be ok..you will get over it..its her lost not yours..you deserve to be loved not hurt..
my husband has same story like yours but you see, he found me..
so sooner or later you can also find your true
and you will be grateful someday that you woke up from the nightmare
wake up everyday with aon your lips..
CRITICIZING OTHERS IS A DANGEROUS THING, NOT SO MUCH BECAUSE YOU MAY MAKE MISTAKES ABOUT THEM, BUT BECAUSE YOU MAY BE REVEALING THE TRUTH ABOUT YOURSELF.
pumpkinsbabykins
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Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Move on and file a div or annulment
tiger
♥♥♥♥Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, While loving someone deeply gives you courage♥♥♥♥.
You will find a better woman than her
There once was a girl that believed in mankind, that there was still honor and chivalry that existed in everyone of us. She also believed that everyone deserves a chance to prove oneself individually and hoped that the courtesy would be returned. That girl is dead now, and all that is left is her shadow. To give one a chance to prove thyself is a chance for you to become dwindled in the dissappointment.
Ouch!she doesn't deserve your love
"When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place."~ Unknown
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