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[Pepe n Pilar]

This is rediculous! She has been seeing a 15 year old boy!.. Whatever problems she has about your marriage, that we can't picture out.... We only know or can see one side of the coin. In any circumstances we always could give advice after hearing both sides but, because we only has your side then we will base our advices on that.

In my opinion, you can and must move on. File for a divorce ASAP. In this early stage of your married life she has done that to you. She has already found out or felt that she wants to be divorced or separated from you. Even when she was still in the Phils and had never been in the UK yet she already has that feelings or plans, i reckon. She just waited for the time to be in the UK, probably she wanted to see the country and then tell you she doesn't want the marriage with you anymore. Or maybe she is just after your money.

There are many filipinas with good heart, sensible and will give you genuine love. Don't let this ruin your outlook about filipinas. You deserve more than her. It's a shame she made this decision. It's her loss not yours.

I wish you the best of luck Socool..

Cheers!

[scottishbride]

I am sorry to hear about your situation, you mentioned that she is 21 years old, therefore she is still practically a kid and couldn't take her commitments seriously. Don't keep chasing her it would show signs of desperation!

[scottishbride]

This is rediculous! She has been seeing a 15 year old boy!.. Whatever problems she has about your marriage, that we can't picture out.... We only know or can see one side of the coin. In any circumstances we always could give advice after hearing both sides but, because we only has your side then we will base our advices on that.

In my opinion, you can and must move on. File for a divorce ASAP. In this early stage of your married life she has done that to you. She has already found out or felt that she wants to be divorced or separated from you. Even when she was still in the Phils and had never been in the UK yet she already has that feelings or plans, i reckon. She just waited for the time to be in the UK, probably she wanted to see the country and then tell you she doesn't want the marriage with you anymore. Or maybe she is just after your money.

There are many filipinas with good heart, sensible and will give you genuine love. Don't let this ruin your outlook about filipinas. You deserve more than her. It's a shame she made this decision. It's her loss not yours.

I wish you the best of luck Socool..

Cheers!

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[britishdetained]

I absolutely agree to all of what they are saying....do not waste your time for such a childlike wife Like is not all about her, you have wonderful life behind you. You can still find the right woman for you

Cheer up and move on

[Pepe n Pilar]

I am sorry to hear about your situation, you mentioned that she is 21 years old, therefore she is still practically a kid and couldn't take her commitments seriously. Don't keep chasing her it would show signs of desperation!

I guess it is not because she is 21 y.o. I have a sister who got married at age 18 and she is very much inlove and stayed in marriage inspite of the ups and downs they had experienced. Each one is different anyway.
It is a matter of being inlove with one another deeply that binds the two together very strongly.......
Just my views...

[PAT]

I guess it is not because she is 21 y.o. I have a sister who got married at age 18 and she is very much inlove and stayed in marriage inspite of the ups and downs they had experienced. Each one is different anyway.
It is a matter of being inlove with one another deeply that binds the two together very strongly.......
Just my views...

:xxgrinning--00xx3Absolutely agree with this,and feel sorry to hear about thier marriage to think how much sacrifices,pressures and efforts while the visa processes.

[D&G]

Its hard because i do love her.

She made it clear she not wont me.The news come from her brother he say she is living with the boys family.

i find out today she has b/f she meet him in disco after we wed he is 15.

Yikes! Truly complicated you are definitely in a very difficult and heart wrenching situation.....

Having her around because u love her and realizing that u cannot have a relationship with her anymore when she doesnt reciprocate your love and having a teen bf on the side is a real dilemma. I/WE really feel for you...for any relationship to work, two people must continue to stay involved so if one decides to disengage, there can be no relationship no matter what the other person does...obviously your wife now decided and preferred to continue her illicit affair than save the
marriage

To extricate yourself from this difficult situation demands that u make a clear choice..i know it's easier said than done... but if u really want a resolution to your predicament, you need to make a clear decision. You need to make choices for urself...Go in the direction you think is best for you

[socool007]

Well put simply me.I have asked her if its over.

[mrs traderdave]

oh ur wife run off of 15yrs old boy my goodness i cant imagine with thatbut what is her valid reason why she do that to u?i have lots of friends in america mostly they are 19 to 21 but they are so much happy with there husband even they are only look daughter or granddaughter becuase there husband is 65but it works both side even they find out that there husband cheatedwe need to know ur side also not only on ur wife mistake i understand some couples problem if they cheated some they are not contented about in sexsorry if i often u but mostly that is common problem

[socool007]

No i did not play away

[Tawi2]

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[Northerner]

A 65 year old man playing away Mrs T

A 65 year old man playing away when his wife is 19 Hugh Hefner maybe

[Tawi2]

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[Northerner]

A plant in late autumn sensing its winters end is rapidly approaching will try its best to pollinate females around it I met an american 70 or a year or two older in Manila with his early 20's "Fiancee",he didnt appreciate english humour when I suggested a caregiver would be better for him than a wife He wasnt a sprighly 70 year old either,looked like a decent gust of wind would topple him so I guess he wasnt long for this world judging by the fitness of his "Fiancee"

Well, at least he will die happy

[trader dave]

Well, at least he will die happy

all true apparently he overdosed on viagra that day