Quote Originally Posted by triple5 View Post
That's how I viewed my trip when I went out there last year, which kind of screwed things up - giving the impression I was just going for a holiday. The lady in question was looking for a firm commitment asap. I found that to be the main moral of Peter's post - understanding what both parties are hoping for in the future as early as you can.
Oh, I only regard it as a holiday so much as there is no other word I can really use to describe this trip