Long Way to Go For a Date - a Discussion

[joebloggs]

I do not think a successful relationship depends on how long you have known each other, but rather a commitment to the relationship and to work through any difficulties.

it can be easier to walk away from problems, people will tell you to move on and forget them, advice given by many people on here, remember simm ..

those who are happily married now and have not faced any major problems yet, what would happen to their relationship if there was?, those who have had problems b4 or after they wed, if they got thru their problems then, maybe they can get thru any problems in the future.

but everyone and each situation is different, so who knows what your future holds

just go with the flow

[Sim11UK]

it can be easier to walk away from problems, people will tell you to move on and forget them, advice given by many people on here, remember simm ..

those who are happily married now and have not faced any major problems yet, what would happen to their relationship if there was?, those who have had problems b4 or after they wed, if they got thru their problems then, maybe they can get thru any problems in the future.

but everyone and each situation is different, so who knows what your future holds

just go with the flow

Absolutely right there Joe
The actual starter of this thread told me to walk away, when I had problems...In the heat of the moment, I agreed with him, but in my heart of hearts I knew that wasn't an option... Just because they are 6000 miles + away, isn't an excuse to give up....a relationship is a relationship, wherever they are.

Iain's posts are interesting, just glad he threw caution to the wind & got on that plane...the proof now is in his happiness.
In my case, I thought this is a crazy idea, but I knew I was going to go through with it....I just got on 3 planes knowing where I was going. I thought if it dosen't work out, I'll head to Cebu, for the rest of my stay, with no other plans, other than that.

I do procrastinate about some things in life, but when there is something I really want to do, I just get on with it.

For people planning to go out there for the first time, do it, but do it for the right reasons....if you don't, you may regret it for the rest of your life.